Getting back lost love!
July 14, 2010 2:02am CST
Hey Mylotters! If you had seen my previous discussion then you would see that i broke up with my girlfriend because she was way too sensitive for me. But it's just been a couple of days and i start to miss her already. She seems to be well because i have not at all heard from her and if she is purposely doing that then i am afraid that it's having a very good impact on me. I can't stand being without her but i don't want it to be like a deja vu all over again. I am prepared to confront her and tell her what her problem really is and how she would sort it out. I need some advice before i leave to tell her. How should i do it? SHE IS WAY SENSITIVE AND CRIES EASILY TO GAIN CONTROL OVER MY HEART WHICH MELTS EASILY FOR HER Keeping that point in mind please suggest. Thank you!
14 Jul 10
I haven't been into any relationship so I don't really I understand much on the feelings that you are going through my friend. All I can say is that, if you truly love the person then you will accept that person for who really she is, in whatever circumstance. And the girl will also accept you back if she really loves you too. XD :D Sorry if i'm not much of help... Good Luck buddy!
18 Jul 10
hi ravi, u r really in a serious situation. i can understand as i'm like u once. this is the moment when once mind will not work properly and takes wrong decissions. lickily some times they'll also turn into rights. but luck doesn't favors all the time. ok.. i want to understand clearly that whether u want to break up with her or just want to say her, her problem and convince her to be with u in the way u want her to be. for the first case, surely u have to follow the harsh path even if she cries or any thing like that. for the second case, there are many ways to solve ur problem. like getting her intrested gifts to her and making her feel that u r the best person in her life, or spending lot of time with her when ever u r free and sharing all u r personal feelings abt her so romantically and explaining them tediciosly.like that. i cant explain u all here. ask me u want any thing more. then i'll.
14 Jul 10
First of all, why did you break up with your girlfriend just because she's, 'way too sensitive for you'? And you broke up with her without discussing it or addressing your problems? Dude, that is one nasty practice there. If it's a fling or whatever, it's a little alright to break up because of trivial things. But now that you lost her, and want her back, I take it you'll be serious if you get her back right? Speaking from a 5 year old healthy and strong relationship experience, you should talk about your problems first. See if you can compromise or resolve your issues. Anyway, enough scolding. lol. How are you going to confront her? Anyhow, you should tell her what you're going through without her, you feel sorry, you want her back. Go through those speeches first then talk about what your problem with her is and listen to what her problem is with you, because I'm very sure she has one if not a couple that is. lol. Then compromise. You should have a very very long talk ok? Goodluck! Hope my suggestion helped.
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14 Jul 10
Absence make the heart grow fonder. You will need more than a few days. If she love you as you appear to love her than allowing yet a bit more time will only make the love stronger. Reason why I am saying that you need a bit more time is because you are going through motions of grief and not really thinking rationally. So you are bound to want her back even though it is not healthy for you. So take some time, occupy your self with other activities and maybe you will see you are better off, or that you belong together.