like to meet decent men.. but where?
By lullabell
@lullabell (436)
United States
July 14, 2010 9:12am CST
I am newly single, 34 and female. Well not really. I have been single for some time, but am just ready to go out there. where do i meet good guys? Mind you, i live in the middle of no where. We have two bars in town, but i do tend to get in trouble by myself in bars. We have a walmart and homedepot. God, i am such a dork. all i can think of is to get dressed up a little and hang out in homedepot!
HELP!
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6 responses
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
Hello lullable,
I don't about this, from the discussions of other female lotters, believed that most men are either weak or pathetically bad. are you sure you still wanted it?
maybe you can try to have friends first, from there, you might choose the best guy for you. i still believe that date,courtship and friendship are the best foundations in having a strong relationships.
it's up to you.you're an adult,anyways
@lullabell (436)
• United States
14 Jul 10
well yeah, i just have no friends really or way of meeting people. i assumed it was common knowledge you make friends first. where do you go to do that?
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
just talked and entertain them, but don't flirt or beyond just plain companionship. that would work.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Jul 10
What do you mean by good guys. You must have gone through a bad experience in life. The world is full of good guys you just have to keep your eyes open and you will bump into someone.
@lullabell (436)
• United States
14 Jul 10
huh, i guess i mean fun, handsome, kind, willing to make room in his life, but not need me to be his life. you know, mister perfect!
@nobbsy123 (851)
• Australia
15 Jul 10
Have you got a town dance? Thats where my dad met his new partner.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
15 Jul 10
Hi,
It doen't help that everyone knows everyone in the area where you live and there are minimum socialzing place to choose from. Have you ever thought about relocation to a slightly larger livelier town or city?
Don't know how old you are or how many relationships you have been or how long they have lasted, but it might be okay just to stop worrying about finding the right guy and focus on something more beneficial to your future, like furthering your education, doing volunteer work, etc.
The great guy you are looking for is out there. Take the focus off and let him find you will you are busy doing positive things.
Take Care
@sleepylittlerose (1648)
• United States
15 Jul 10
I have heard that you can often meet good men at church or volunteer functions. Which both of these makes pretty good sense. If a man is single and church going then he must have some morals (which is a whole lot more than the guy you will meet at the bar). If he is willing to volunteer (and is not being forced to do so through the courts) it shows he is a giving person.
You could also try an online dating site. You never know where Mr. Right will come from or when you will meet him. Just remember don't settle for Mr. Right Now.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
dont feel that way^^ you think right dress up and go for a walk^^ you might meet a sweet guy ^^ just walk and that can happen^^ or go to a bar with your friends but dont drink much to be drunk just drink a bit. also your friends can invite other friends they have and that you still didnt meet and you can meet them and maybe there is a sweet guy^^ dont worry for sure you can find the perfect guy for you^^ or if nothing of this works try to meet online but first see his face in cam before meet him near bcs so many liars on internet^^ and meet the person deeply before meet in person^^ anyway wish you the best^^
