Do you feel teenagers in love are succesful these days?

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@alienstar (5140)
India
July 15, 2010 4:55am CST
There are many young college going students getting into love.Though i don't say it is wrong if everything is fine, but there are many cases where it fails miserably either before deciding to get married or sometimes even after marriage.What do you think the main drawback for the love failure? According to me, people involved in love should understand each other, have trust in each other and more than anything care for each other more and more as most of them demonstrate love by only getting physical and i do say that there is much more than this in life.Love has to be felt first and not by getting physical.One should understand what is love, isn't it?
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@Metatronik (5923)
• Pasay, Philippines
15 Jul 10
I really rarely hear for those teenagers that are lovers who settled longer until marriage. Yes it is true, it is not wrong to be in love at younger age because that is part of human being. But the problem is most of them are not yet matured enough to face the challenges in relationship. Some of them are just playing around by fooling someone else's feelings. I mean they are enjoying to see the fact that others are being jealous because of them and somebody is fighting over them. They must understand what true love is.
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
You are absolutely right and because of age they make mistake isn't it? but what about people who fall in love later in life or even in some of the cases of marriages which later falls because of lack of things mentioned here.When one of these things is missing, it becomes really difficult to maintain relationship bonding between them.
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
yes i agree with you^^ for a relationship the most important is really care for each other and not just the physical part. sure we need to have strong feelings for the person and love the person before we do that. thats what i think and for a relationship both need to effort and both need to care and not just one of them. and sometimes in many relations just one of them is doing all for it so if we really love someone and are in a relationship we must always show him or her what they mean to us and how much we love them^^
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
Caring is a sweet form of love which has to be experienced by both.Once we start caring, respecting and trusting each other we feel and experience different kind of sensual feeling which we may not have experienced throughout our life.People do forget to realize these things at younger age
• China
15 Jul 10
I cannot agree with you more . Love is a feelings between tow people , not getting physical . If someone just want to get physical , the love will be not long between a couple . Do you think so , friends ?
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
I have not told that if love is only physical it won't survive long.I just told that if love is pure it will have more of trust, respect and understanding and also it will last longer than the love which is only physical for sure and the proof for this will be the comments what we get here in this thread
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
15 Jul 10
I feel as teenagers, that's exactly what we're missing and why so many teen couples fall down the same hole. - Love has to be felt first, and not by getting physical. I thought this was well said. I know because I've fallen down that hole myself and have learnt from it.
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
Teenagers think less as they like action all the time.I have seen so many young couple getting physical first before understanding each other.Whenever they get time, they don't spend that time talking with each other instead exploring each others body which is where they do the mistake.Love is pure and a beautiful feeling and has to be felt first by caring for each other
@jerikjames (1045)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Personally, I think the problem with the young with regard to love is they think they're in love when they're really infatuated. They later realize this when their infatuation for their partner has subsided, but they can no longer get out of the relationship because they got married. You're right, though it's not that they don't know what love is. Rather, they don't know if what they have is really love. But of course, love is always a choice. If your infatuation subsided and yet you chose to love the one you're with, then good for you! You're not one of those miserable people wanting to get out of their marriage! lol.
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
Infatuation can happen most of the times in school days as at that young age they take infatuation as real love.But once they grow up and reach college level and all most of them do get more and more physical when they fall in love.We do see most of them don't even have trust or faith in each other as most of the time will be spent only by getting physical which is actually secondary in love where as trust,understanding and caring should take the first spot here
• Indonesia
15 Jul 10
I agree with you. and about teenagers in love, i can say most of them are fail in understanding true love, and most of them are end up broke, though since me myself are a teenager, i think i can understand which is true love and which is a "short" love. I have someone that i really love and someone that i love just for fun ;)
@alienstar (5140)
• India
15 Jul 10
It is really good if you are already understanding what is the real meaning of love at this young age of yours.Most of them get physical to show their deep love to the opposite person thinking that as the strong love, but fail to understand the real meaning of love which has to be felt and it has come within themselves resulting in many love failures in recent days
• India
16 Jul 10
i think yes.they dont have the maturity to know what is love or how to love.as in my case i am now only knowing what is love and what is the purpose of love.
• India
16 Jul 10
Lack of understanding and after or before marriage they come across realities and facts of life
@lixiaoyan (179)
• China
16 Jul 10
Aha,may be this discussion is discussing me and my boy.We are both college students,and we have been together for 2years.From the very begining we were just good friend,and we found that we had fallen in love with each other,then we together.In the 2years ,we have experienced so many things,such as the problem of his home's finacial,our study,our parttime work.And the most difficult period in our love was when he got sick and lived in hospital,he couldn't go back to school,just took medicine and live in hospital for a month,I did everything what I can for him ,and help him to catch up his study,encouragred and accompaniend him to fight his ill. We don't know how our future is ,we don't know how long we can be together either.We also afriad that one day we will break up because our parents,our work,or our future plan.But we love each other deeply,and at this moment,we can't live without each other,so we keep being together,and we will try our best to be together for ever.
16 Jul 10
I don't think teenagers are successful when it comes to love. Love isn't finding someone just because you want to involve in a relationship. Now a days, teenagers are not that totally in love with their partners. They want to have in a relationship because they want to be pampered, they want to be cared, they want to be loved and be loved.
16 Jul 10
we all want to develop and experience true love with special someone who comes in our live young couple,teenagers, adult at the right place at the right time but apparently not everyone don't know how we really gain true love.It is connecting our thoughts and communicating it with the person but if that person is just looking for physical and says its the only way to show love and yet you don't feel something that is sincere enough it is just lust because a person cannot force you to do something when your not yet ready to that pure love is willing to wait no matter what the cause is..
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
16 Jul 10
They are dating too much always ready to the next one and thinking too much about the looks. I've heard about decisions to get married made by the way they are in bad, or because she's beautiful or he is... And the freedom, the only reason people in other decades were holding on to a failed marriage was because people judged too much back then.
• United States
16 Jul 10
yes i think it can ber sucessfull because the girl i luv stays very farm from me the problem is that that every body in my family noes about it an her grany is like u stay away from my daughter what can i say to her shezz raly older to me but then also i told her ya i luv her what u wana do u can do ...
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
16 Jul 10
Love is neither felt or physical. It's a choice. A willful act, deciding that this other person is so valuable to you, that you pledge even if they hurt your feelings, or make mistakes, that they are your single most important person on the planet. Saying love is a feeling is dangerous, because feelings come and go. I can't count the number of people who foolishly say "I just don't feel love for her/him anymore". That's because there never was love to begin with. It was just a feeling. I wager this is the main reason why so many couples fail.
• United States
15 Jul 10
i think these young college students think they are in love but dont have know reason to moive so fast they dont know what they are getting in to but you are right some times they get marry and 6 months latter they are breaking up and ever thing like that you know but the ones that end up miserably should have keep their minds in thoses books but they dont see that and it end up been pupple love not real love but dont get me wrong their are people out there who makes it in these hard times and they stay togather