The best way to say sorry to someone is...

July 16, 2010 8:56am CST
hmmm.... i've said something to this person i dearly loved and i'm really regretting on for what i've said to him. I'm soo deeply sorry for what i've told him, i sure wish i can turn back time before that time that i said things i shouldn't have and now i want to know whats the best way on apologizing to him. Any suggestions...? any cute or sweet way to do so? desperately need your help...
7 responses
@Angelgirl16 (2177)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Hi charmlenile, I have to ask you a question or two before I answer your question and give you my solution. Okay, here goes. What made you so angry with this person that you would lash out with words that you now what to take back? Do you still feel angry but wish that you had chosen your words a little more carefully or are you saying that you should not have said anything to this person because he didn't deserve your firy tongue? Maybe he was just there when you need someone to beat up on. If this last part is what happened, then you should hurry up and apologize. If he did indeed tick you off and you should have said something, just not what you say in the way that you said it, you still should apologize about the way you say things to him, but you should still try to get him to see why you were angry. If he is approachable, sit down with him in a calm environment and talk. If he is not approachable write him a letter and leave the final decision up to him. Good Luck
26 Jul 10
he/she just did something really bad that really annoys me and even I explain to her she keeps shouting at me that's why I just pointed out what I do really feels that's why in a sense I have done thing not to the point it is not intentional just want them to listen. Its complicated.
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
I knew if we commit mistakes nor deeply hurt someone, theres no best way to earn his trust again or even to be forgivven unless she or he realized that youre sincere in asking for an apology. First youre primary objective should be to let him feel that youre sincere, as you said youre very close to him so i suggest the best way is to get a card with a great message then try to write something personal too, like memories youve share and how you realized that u wnat him back again. You know seldom people realized how this card can warm heart and can bring a different satisfaction, it really works. goodluck
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26 Jul 10
thank so much... its a big help....
• Portugal
16 Jul 10
the best way is to find a sweet way sure^^ why dont you write a song to him and sing to him that you really are sorry for what you said? is a very sweety way to show you regret what you did^^ im sure he will love it. anyway if you are shy to sing to him just go to his house and say in his eyes that you really regret what you said. that you really like him and dont want to lose him^^ that it hurts you much these days you been regretting what you said and didnt have enough courage to face him^^ just tell him that you really are sorry and that all you want is that he can forgive you^^ and that you like him much^^
16 Jul 10
ohhh! your really are sweet sweetloveforeve how cute and sweet but don't you think its to much. anyway, that will do, too.I think I have to practice my vocal cord to say all that between the lines.LOL!thank you so much.
@bingskee (5241)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
say it as lovingly as you can holding his hand or giving him a peck on the cheek..
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@pogi253 (1583)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
For me, a simple letter explaining how you feel is a better way of saying sorry. And you must express your honesty.
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@brew2x (3099)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
If you can't say sorry yet personally then it is a nice idea to write him a letter. You could also give him something that he likes as a peace offering like cooking his favorite dish. Whenever I do something wrong to my husband, I just give him a hug and kiss and say sorry. He told me to do that whenever he is upset also.
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@Shar19 (8236)
• United States
16 Jul 10
I think the best way is to sit down with the person. Just start by explaining how bad you feel about the things you said and that you truly are sorry. Let that person know how much you mean to them and how you would never intentionally hurt them. Tell them that you love them and that you will try harder to think about what you say before the words escape your lips.
16 Jul 10
thank you mylotter shar. I would pray harder that God give me courage to do that perhaps a deep breath before I sit with them wit a talk.thanks a lot take care!