I made mum angry and upset :((
By smiley83
@smiley83 (1534)
Malaysia
July 18, 2010 12:37am CST
Hey friends...
well, I'm not feeling well and my throat is dried that my voice changed as i'm having cough and flue..so, whenever I talk; my voice seems to be a bit rough due to my soar throat.
Anyways, I was upset about one of the stuffs and mum got so angry at me that she grabbed her jacket and left the house to get some fresh air. I don't like to make her upset but i'm not feeling well and my brother annoyed me 
I don't know what to do now! I'm writing this discussion with tears rolling over my eyes I don't like to make mum sad. I wish if I didn't come over home during this weekend. I wish if I just stayed there at the hostel
Awh gosh i'm very much frustrated now..what should I do? I don't like to make her upset and mad at me 
I don't know what to do now! I'm writing this discussion with tears rolling over my eyes I don't like to make mum sad. I wish if I didn't come over home during this weekend. I wish if I just stayed there at the hostel
Awh gosh i'm very much frustrated now..what should I do? I don't like to make her upset and mad at me 6 people like this
28 responses
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
hello sugar,your mum had enough of you,i guess.she will be back soon,i know.most mothers really feel bad when their children doesn't listen to them for sometime.you know,my mother also got upset for my other sister just this day.well,as i've said,you are like my sister in some ways.i am thinking of you as like her (my sister). and i know you are having some throat problems which are harder to take specially when you feel like crying.my dear,don't be sad,for your mother will get home soon and be sure to talk to her when she got home.mothers need some sweetness from their children,specially daughters,like you!
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
i know she'll be alright.how are things going with you now? i hope you're okay now with her. it's hard to make our mothers feel upset.i can just remember i have had some trouble with my mom with my past.i know i kinda make her feel upset,but things happens.
you know,we all are facing different kinds of problems and they say that God would give you problems which He knows you can handle.just have faith!
@Memnon (2170)
•
19 Jul 10
Sometimes if we are under some stress, and ill, we're not ourselves. The important thing now is that you have made up. Hopefully you have learnt something in the process and know how to prevent a repeat. It's still very kind of you to realise that you were in the wrong, and make the first move when she returned.
All to easy to remain sore after a falling out, and let it fester. You did the right thing. Take care.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah thank God everything gone smoothly... Yeah, I did realize my mistake though I do make lots of wrongdoings and all related to my impatience I swear things would be so cool if I know how to control my emotions and get patient but seriously, it seems very hard to do that! I wish if I know how or the tips of calming ...
I swear things would be so cool if I know how to control my emotions and get patient but seriously, it seems very hard to do that! I wish if I know how or the tips of calming ...
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Just give her some time to calm down and you have some time to calm down. Then go up to her and say you're sorry you made her upset, that you weren't thinking straight because you didn't feel well and that you know that's not an excuse. I am sure she'll realize the combination of your brother's annoyances and your not feeling well made you a bit aggravated and nothing more.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
19 Jul 10
It seems like she did start to talk to you so I am sure all is forgiven now. It's very good that you do feel bad about what you've done, but you shouldn't beat yourself up over it.
@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah she did..but it is all my fault as I should have kept myself calmed but I don't know how to do that as I'm very IMPATIENT girl I would have to keep on trying as I don'y like to be the causer of all the troubles...all the dramas are mostly caused by me
I would have to keep on trying as I don'y like to be the causer of all the troubles...all the dramas are mostly caused by me 
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
19 Jul 10
you should do is apologize and talk without the use of emotions. Your mother, will surely forgive you. Sincere request from a child would be accepted by a mother. The problems between mother and child often, but if we can resolve quickly, the problem is not going to be great.
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@doglady112 (604)
• Canada
19 Jul 10
Don't worry, I've been there and my mom got mad at me plenty. When I was a teenager and she gets mad at me now when I'm an adult. But she's still here for me and your mom is there for you. She knows the reason you're feeling angry is because you're sick. She just needs to cool off. take care of yourself, get better quick.
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
18 Jul 10
We are human and thinks can just get on our nerves.Its not you fault it happens sometimes.I hope you can make up and foget this ever happened.Many people fight with each other and this is normal to express emotions.Just forget about it and act as you normally do and i am sure that you can be over this relitevely mild converontaion.
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah you are right and this is what had exactly happened to me yesterday..I'm passing through a very confusing time lately in the university and i'm having cough and flue that things are just completely upside down and what happened at home was out f my control as I didn't mean it..
but thank God she backed home and I immediately kissed and said sorry to her..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Jul 10
smiley83 I think your mum will understand once she has had a chance
to cool down. When you are not feeling well even little things upset
you and your brother really should have left sister alone when she
is sick like that. Once you mom has had a chance to relax she will see for herself that your brother was misbehaving and should not have been messing
with you. I would let your mom know that you did not mean to upset her so, and that you are sorry about that.good luck and God bless you.
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
awh thanks dear.. yeah she backed home and I immediately kissed her and said sorry and I would try to keep myself calmed..even though, it is very hard for me to control my emotions when i'm passing through a hard time in university and not feeling well due to the cough and the flue
@jeffrynov (130)
• Indonesia
18 Jul 10
forget about the stuff, do something you think your mom would likely to be laugh of, cheer her the way you think she would forget about the last matter, she would be smile anyway after all she is your mother and there is nothing can separate anyone between you
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
I didn't wot to do as I wasn't thinking about anything except her returns! she is the only thing i was very concerned about as I was worried if something could happen to her and I would keep on blaming myself for the rest of my life if something could have happened to her as she gone out angry and upset..but thank God she got back and I immediately kissed her
@nijolechu (1842)
• Canada
18 Jul 10
I feel sad that this happened to you. I hope you search for your mother in order to patch up your relationship and make her feel better. I know some people just need time away from each other in order to cool off and then maybe will see the light. I hope this problem gets resolved quickly so that a rift won't form between you two.
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah thank God things are resolved the moment she got back home that I kissed and said said sorry to her.. things are okay now.. I would try to control my emotions no matter how hard it could be..things are upside with me in university and my health..it is just so many layers happened to be done at once
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
18 Jul 10
:) Well.. Just say sorry to your mom. If you cannot say it directly to her, just send her text message or write her letter. I do that sometimes when I feel sorry about what I have done, that I think hurt my mom badly, disappointed her, or something.
I'll tell her how I feel, why I did the things I did, and apologize.
Good luck. Hope things get better.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Well, try to apologize, that is the best and ultimate method to use. I will do the same if I felt that I am guilty of it. Apology is the best weapon you can use. She will forgive you, nonetheless, you are her child.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
18 Jul 10
Well i suggest you should do something to cheer your mom up. Since she went out you could probably lay a surprise for her to show how much you care for her. If your brother again troubles you then try to blackmail him. Show her that you truy like her a lot. Make her favorite food or just as well make a card saying that your sorry. I usually smile a lot of times when my mom's angry and she smiles back and hugs me. That's her Achilles heel! 
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah I did kiss her and said sorry after she backed home.. but she only talked with me late at night.. actually, everything was my fault! I'm not feeling well as i'm having cough and flue, besides i'm passing through a hard time in college as this is my final year where I have to focus harder and do my final year project.. so, things are upside down with me but I shouldn't have downloaded my pressure on them and my brother was teasing me that I couldn't take it.. but things are better now
@hristo95 (100)
• Bulgaria
18 Jul 10
Sometimes I annoy my parents, laws, then sorry. We all need to listen to what our parents say, and to implement their recommendations. Our parents are our guardian angel. They take care of us and protect us, until we reach the age at which we can handle ourselves. Our parents will always love us and will worry about us. I don't like to make her upset but i'm not feeling well
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@sirzhang (229)
• China
18 Jul 10
What a caring girl. I think your mom will be proud of you as she has a thoughtful daughter. Athough you make her angry sometime. I think what you should do is talk to her carefully. Tell her you love her. Let her understand your true feeling and what you think. You know mothers all are tolerant to their children. So don't worry.
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
awh thanks so much dear for the complement.. yeah I did talk to her after she backed.. my gosh I was so worried that something would happen to her as she got out angry and I will not forgive myself is something happened to her.. so, after she backed, I kissed her and said sorry that I didn't mean to cause the trouble. she only said OK. then I left crying in my room coz she is still angry..but she only talked with me late at night
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Awwww sweetie, that's really nice of you to care for you mom like that! Don't worry about her, she'll be alright. When she returns, apologize to her and tell her that you love her. Maybe you can talk to her and get your feelings out without screaming at each other and also listen to her and see what she has to say. It might make things easier in the future. It's worth a try!
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Hi smiley! I'm sorry that you aren't feeling well right now,
but don't cry. Just explain to your mother that you didn't
mean to upset her it's just that you aren't feeling well and
that is what is upsetting you and apologixe. I'm sure she'll
understand then. I know when I'm sick I don't want anyone
around me! Take care and get well! Sending you prayers and
hugs, Opal
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
hey Opal...
yeah I did kiss her after she backed home.. but she didn't allow me to have a long talk with her as she was very upset..she only talked with me late at night.. my gosh it was a very terrible time Opal! I didn't mean to get her mad but I'm not feeling well and i'm passing through a hard time in college that everything in my life is upside down lately
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 10
Hi,
Sad to hear about the incident happened to you.
Don't be sad !! Cheer up !!
I believe your mum can forgive you. No matter what you are her kid and she sure loves you alot too.
When she come back home later, say Sorry to her and let her know that you are having a bad mood due to your sickness and you did not mean to argue with her too.
Or you can try give her a call on her mobile phone,at least to say Sorry to her first.
Talk to her nicely and everything can be settled .
Takecare !!
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@smiley83 (1534)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 10
yeah I did talk to her after she backed home and I kissed her as well.. but she didn't talk to me after that till late at night.. It was my fault and I deserve the treatment but I swear everything happened without my intention as i'm passing through a very hard time these days
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
18 Jul 10
why dont you search for her than to feel bad.you can apologize her for being a bit harsh and then hangout at the nearby restuarant.i'm sure no mother in this world would hate her children irrespective of them being harsh or arrogant.so shut down your PC and call your mom and have some good time with her.
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@Terrencehenry6 (181)
• Jamaica
18 Jul 10
Awwww smiley don't feel so bad your mom knows that you still love her and you love her ,thats how moms are but just try to ensure that you apologise to her despite what happeaned, and try to feel better soon.Happy myloting
