Is it good to build a good relationship with neighbours????

India
July 20, 2010 2:00pm CST
Friends in our we saw so many people who are quarreling with neighbours and few days later they will be build good relation ship. So is it good to build relationship with the neighbours????? I says YES it is good only, why because they will help us and we can create our own nature, own environment and we can lead a happy life forever. What you say friend?
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18 responses
@hucker21 (67)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
I have a yes and a no. of course yes because no one there to help you but your neighbors so you must be friends. And a "NO" since we have this neighbors that maybe born plastic? not sure. i hate them a lot. they usually backbite you when you're away.
• India
20 Jul 10
Friend your response is some what interesting and i do agree with you in this matter. Some of them neighbors may do like this but not every one. So thank you for your response.
@satylot (98)
20 Jul 10
yeah I agree with you my friend.... Neighbours are the first to whom you go for help and you trust the most in the place you stay.. With Good neighbours you dont feel alone even in a strange place.. makes you more of social type..
• India
20 Jul 10
Yes my dear friend that is absolutely right, With good neighbors we won't feel alone in a strange place. Thats why its necessary to make good relationship with neighbors.
@youless (112100)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jul 10
Of course it is essential to have a good relationship with our neighbors. We have a saying here: A good neighbor is better than a far away relative. When we need help, they are the closest persons to us. I love China
• India
21 Jul 10
It is always compulsory to have good relationship with neighbours whatever the religion it may be. Any country, religion whatever it may be.We should live with them very happy by co-operating each other in the happy situations or in the problems.We must keep our relations healthy with them. Make sure that the neighbour is leading a good life or not. We must maintain a relationship honestly and kind to one another. We have to listen to each others issues and problems and make to solve those kindly. But on the same way we must be very carefull about the neighbour too, what kind of people they are. We must be very cautious too in maintaining relationships.
@katiesueg (257)
• Italy
21 Jul 10
It's definitely a good idea to maintain good relationships with your neighbours. They can be of enormous help. I can remember in California when we went on vacation our next door neighbour kept a watch on our house while we were gone to make sure we were not burglarised. We did the same when he went on vacation. Neighbours can watch each others backs, so to speak. They don't necessarily have to be friends, but they should at least respect each other.
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Only if your neighbors are truly worth building a relationship with. Like mine, he helped me out during the winter to get my car out of the snow and we're on good terms ever since. Another of my neighbor, however, could care less about me and frequently report me to the county about like how I let my lawn grown too long (which I've been too busy with stuff to mow the lawn). Good neighbors are understanding and will even help you with stuff if you really need it and vice versa.
• India
20 Jul 10
Yup friend it matters whether the neighbors are good or bad, if they are good then sure we can make friendship and we can build a relation with them. Thanks for your valuable response.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
For me, it is good to build a good relationship with our neighbors. But there are also some neighbors that can create troubles. But as a good neighbor, we must have to understand them and we make friends with them.
@sumiirajj (1983)
• India
21 Jul 10
Hi friend,I agree that its good to maintain a good relation with our neighbours.Even if my neighbours disturb or trouble us I adjust and cooperate with them as far as possible.All my neighbours have a very good opinion about me and help me in times of need.As I cooperate with them they are always happy to help me whatever and whenever I need.I maintain a distance and at the same time have a good relation with them,but if we are too close also problems may rise and if we are faraway also they might not even know us.So its always good to be friendly with our neighbours.Thanks for sharing happy mylotting.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
21 Jul 10
It is a great idea to make friends with your neighbours if they are nice considerate people. Sadly there are some who are not so pleasant and can test the friendship on a regular basis! A friend of mine has made many good friends from her neighbours in her street; they get together socially, take care of each other’s children etc. My husband and I are friendly with the people next door in a very superficial way and the rest of the street keeps very much to themselves. It does depend on the people but certainly if you can be friends that has got to be a good thing.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
21 Jul 10
I think it is a very good idea to have a good relationship with your neighbors. These are people you live close to and may see quite often. It makes for a burdensome life when you don't get along with your neighbors. There is enough in life to cope with. A good relationship with your neighbors is worth having. You never know when you may need help from. They could also need help from you. Being on good terms with your neighbors just makes life easieer to bear.
@reetu3 (262)
• India
21 Jul 10
ya definetly a good relationship with neighbours is must...in time of need they are the nearest to whom we can approach...
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Yes its true, its great to have a good relationship with our neighbors as in the whole community. I wish our country's old tradition will be practice more often, before when a new neighbor move in they bring foods to all their new neigbhors as a sign of good start of relationship and friendship, but now its practice was so rare now, and I hope people will have a big humility in their hearts, because nowadays neighbors are being mean because they think they are good than others or they have more money than their neighbors, or sometimes they like to gossip to others. Its sad to have that kind of neighborhood when we can love each others like sisters and brothers...and besides that is are should be nature...love and respect and understand one another...just like Jesus said our Lord.
• India
21 Jul 10
it is good to be with neighbours. It makes our relationship/bond with them strong, smooth and healthier. Rather not all the neighbours are good. why we too some time :( You can find a good bond with your neighbours only when you are away from jealous, greedy.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
it is very important to have a good relationship with our neighbors, we have to consider them as part of our family to live harmoniously in one community,anytime we are in need, sometimes our neighbors can do a big help for us, and we can do the same.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
yes of course as somehow they can be a big help if theres something wrong happened to you while at home but it depends to their attitude as some dont really bother to care their neighbors at all. unlike in our province that we used to exchange foods and you can see them talking during saturday and sunday. its nice and good to have those kind of neighbors around you that makes you feel that your safe. though in here in manila, i dont even know some of my neighbors nor i seldom see them coz most of us just stay at home and if we go out then its because we will go somewhere else.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Yes it's good to build a good relationship with neighbors. If you have a good relationship with them, the place will be peaceful and spreading of whatsoever rumors and false accusations will be avoided...:)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
yes. i think being friends or at least in good terms with your neighbors is a good thing because you can aid each other in times of need and you can also keep each other company during your free time. having a good relationship with your neighbor also gives you a good impression.
• United States
20 Jul 10
Of course you want to build a good relationship with your neighbors for many different reasons. One reason you would want to is so that they can invite you to any parties they have! Also you need a trustworthy neighbor so that you know they will not steal from you and will watch over your house and neighborhood.