Life is So Tiring

@naoimi09 (106)
Philippines
July 20, 2010 6:33pm CST
Sometimes we really can't understand life. The problems, trials, challenges and everyday experiences. I believed I'm a strong willed person, God fearing, full of self confidence and a lot more to describe myself. But there are certain point of time that I feel so exhausted and so tired, not just of work but tired of everything. Sometimes, I feel that I'm the most stupid and useless person. I really can't describe what I feel right now, because even me can't understand myself too. Of course I can't blame HIM for all of this because I also believe that He will not give all this trials to us if we are not that strong to solve it. He wants just the best for all us. I hope someday I can understand it all. I'm not that open to anyone even my closest friends about problems or anything that is why sometimes it's so hard for me to cope up about all of this. I'm glad that mylot is here for me to express myself or in one way or another share to anyone what I feel even though they don't know me as well.
11 responses
@pinky31ps (187)
• India
21 Jul 10
well you are right. it will take time for you to fully understand yourself. but hey you have us. we are family here on mylot. you can share any of your problem. we will try our level best to suggest you solutions. but remember don't loose hope..
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Hi Pinky. Thank you for your support. I'm glad that mylot is here for me to unload myself by sharing what I've been through each day.
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
21 Jul 10
Yes, life is tiring. Not only for you and for me too.. Sometimes I question myself, when all of this will end. To find such a simple happiness is also so hard. I don't understand why. But that is what happen. Sometimes, I can cry alone at night. But things are not simply change. Sometimes I also laugh like I never have problems before. But they don't know what inside of me.. All of this time, my life is such a mess. But what I can do is just trying to pass this. I believe one day the sun will shine..
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Hi Hestylim. I believe that through prayers and the love and support of your family and friends you will be able to cope it all up..
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
at times, i feel that too. you are not alone. i think it is valid to feel like that since we are sometimes overwhelmed by our situations. i am glad that i have friends whom i can talk with just about anything. i am happy to know that you look the challenges in such a positive way. i think you will overcome those soon. i admire your optimism and faith. keep them. you will benefit from those. good luck and best wishes.
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Hi mensab. Thank you so much for your comment. I take it also as a compliment.
• India
21 Jul 10
I don't know of what age you are but I am a 20 year old college student and a dayscholar . I experience almost everything that you so well explained . I was once a strong believer of God, but as I grow up I find it hard to believe that there is a God. But still I am a believer. I too find life monotonous- early morning waking up, going to college, boring lecture hours, coming back tired, some internet, songs, then back to bed again.no girls(lovers), not much outing(college works make me stuck at home).....Then there is the secret addictions that I have...life doesn't sound better..but recently i am happy, cos now I have a target, rather many targets...they are 1) studying to get into my favourite college where i know life would be much better, 2) fighting off the habit of self gratification, I am almost 100% succesful..then i heard one audio session from dr.vincent peale(someone like that)...its about being positive in life.. my life is getting much much better....I pray you will find something which will make your life better. Thank you.
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Hi. I'm 21 years old, a recent board passer of 2009 Nursing Licensure Board Examination. Back on my college years I also experienced what you have gone through, I'm also a scholar before, and like you I'm also a homebody girl during that time. I don't even have the time to spend with my family or friends, and that I felt I missed a lot of quality time with them. I envy them, every time I see those pictures that I am not with them. Maybe, just a sweet advised, you should also try to make time for yourself. Enjoy life while your still young, because by the time that you have your job or career it would be too difficult to have spare time. Anyway good luck for both of us..thank you for your comment on my post.
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
20 Jul 10
Life can be a real drag alot of the time , but their are the good times to be had.Many people are mindless zombies working themself's to the grave and rarely socialize and have any fun.It is these kind of people that will die early and have many dreams that will go unfulfilled.People sometimes have no choise to work 2 or even 3 jobs just to make the rent and pay for groceys, this is a truly sad situation.People in this prediciment should try to find time to have fun even if it means taking a few days off work.Life is a big adventure and can be really boring and depressing at times but it is an unpredicate mix that makes it exicting to live through.
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Maybe your right that even though life is so exhausting sometimes, it is still challenging because of its unpredictability, we do not know what lies ahead each time we wake up each morning. Despite everything we should be thankful to Him for letting us experience and become a part of His world.
• India
21 Jul 10
Greetings Naoimi09 ! To see without seeing... To feel without touching... To speak without sounding... The Answer and the Question... Everything is within THYSELF...
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
My body feels exhausted after each day's work but my life isn't. All I do is thank God for everything that He gave me on that very day then I feel fully recharge when I wake up in the morning, all problems gone and looking ahead for the days to come.
• India
21 Jul 10
I use to do almost the same jobs everyday!! Waking up early in the morning I use to go to the Yoga, then come back home, have breakfast, read newspapers, study books and then use to go to college. In the evening I use to go to play tennis and then at the night I come back home and study again!! Then after having dinner I go to sleep. This is the more or less the same routine for me. Sometimes I really feel happy but rest of the times I feel boring and tiring!!! I wish I could have got something else to do!!
@Shinyqiu (119)
• China
21 Jul 10
hi,naoimi,maybe you load too heavy burden for life to have a rest.You must unload something and throw away the pressure,challenges.You can try to get a trip with you lover,or closest friends,or concentrate on habbit you interesting,then you will find that the life is very interesting and signficative.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
yes, i believe i've experienced that in my life, too. however, i learned to accept all the negative things that come and go in my life. after all, life is like a wheel and you can never just stay up there forever.
• India
21 Jul 10
Hi, Yes, Nothing was understandable with this life.Actually i feel that one day all are going to die, why this people are so keened about money or something.I can say that god is doing work correctly.Some time i am getting lot of failures.But after some time god gives some good thing to me to job.If you think that you are facing lot problems means that please think that you are going to enjoy soon. Nothing is permanent in this world.It is in your hand to take it out. Don't worry be happy.:) Cheers, Sakthi