I dont want to go to school
July 20, 2010 10:07pm CST
Hello myLotters, Last night my wife tell me, that our daughter (5 yo) said that she didnt want to go to her kindergarten. She said that she was affraid of older group. FYI, she has a myopia (nearsightness) and use glasses for a week. Doctor said the has it becouse of genetic, from me. So do yo think is it about older group or about glasses? Please advice me..
27 Jul 10
About the glasses, I've asked to her teacher and ask to the teacher to take care her more. And now, she has been sitting to the middle front of the class. I appriciate that. and about the older group, I think she needs more friend, becaose her old friends are in another group. I hopre she comfortable with her new friends soon. Thanks for your advice..
21 Jul 10
Try asking her why she does not want to go to school. If she says it is because of her wearing glasses then try giving a positive twist to it. "Darling, you look great wearing them.". If she is anxious try relieving anxiety. Just my two cents. I am not a parent but I can imagine what it is like. :)
29 Jul 10
First you ask why you don't want to go to school,you are afraid of older group or is about glasses.If she says its about older group than tell her they won't do any thing,they are all your brothers and be comfortable,where as if she says its about glass,you better say you look very beauty wearing glass,it suits you and very soon i will be wearing same as you.Advice her..
22 Jul 10
Talk to your daughter first. Ask her why she don't like to go to school. If it is because of the older group... Maybe you should go with her to school and observe first. Let the other kids know that your daughter have her parents to protect her. If it is about the glasses... rest assure your daughter that she should not be ashamed of wearing something that she needs. Show her pictures of people wearing eyeglasses ( especially famous people) . Wearing eyeglasses if fashionable nowadays, some wear it to accessorized their get-up. Have a heart to heart talk first with your kid... then you could decide what to do.