what did you learn from your past relationship/experience/job/business/parents?

India
July 21, 2010 1:45am CST
lets share our experiences here...what did your learn from your past experience in your life and do you think it will be helpful or important experience in your future relationships, or job or business.I have learn a lot from my past relationship, just want to say one line "Don't Love Anyone More than They Deserve". I have done a very serious mistake while choosing my career, and I learned that Choosing a good career path is very important in your life, YOU PEOPLE DON'T BELIEVE IF I SAY I AM AN MBA(Master of Business Administration) but now I am feeling that this not the right path for my future and I want to build my career in IT(Information Technology)
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11 responses
• Malaysia
23 Jul 10
From the past relationship, i realized that i learned a lot from that. I also do not have a lot of self-esteem. I think i really need to become confident, independent, happy and comfortable with myself before i get into a relationship. I feel like I've gotten into relationships to feel like I'm wanted or needed. I would start liking someone, because they like me. I just want someone there to assure me of who i am, and what i'm capable of. I think i need to really focus on myself, get my act together. I realized that i don't want to get into a relationship because i want someone to depend on. But someone that i truly truly like and want to get to know better and sees where things go form there.
• United States
22 Jul 10
Life in itself is a learning lesson and well don't feel that you have made a mistake as having an MBA in business integrates into many possibilities. Since you are calling it a mistake, venture out and explore and one day you are going to find out it was the best thing you did. Think about IT specialty with a MBA in business. Wow!
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
What i learned, don't give your love too much. Don't offer your money too much when he is in need, you may not get back your money anymnore when you break up. LOL. Crazy suggestion, but it is true.
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
of course they are very vital responsible for molding me as a unique individual with talents, ability and skills. Sometimes their are path in career where one just realize later it is not fit his likes. So they may pursue other learning. So if you have all the right resources you could still pursue it. And their is no stopping by when you dream then you act you could obtain it later.
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I agree with you that choosing a career path is important,but people do make mistakes in this area as in everything else. We always think at first that it's the right one for us, but we later on find out that we have made a mistake and that it is very hard to undo everything. Mistakes are made so we can improve on the state of things. Just because we made a mistake once doesn't mean that we need to repeat that stupidity again.
@kaka10 (180)
• South Africa
21 Jul 10
Well I learnt that never trust a man that eats too much McDonalds,I don't think I am doing what I would like to be doing. I want to go into soccer coaching that would be my ideal job but I want to play forst and foremost. I had a business well a pie shop and I was doing business with some sneaky characters and then I just left it I am at the point where I need to finish and not leave half eaten sandwiches everywhere.
@geasha (1)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Jul 10
In my past relationship, I've learned that one should not give 100% love. He/she must save some respect and value to her/himself. Also it should be a give and take relationship.
@mylosha (286)
• India
21 Jul 10
Hai mylotter, well i have learned lot from my past relationships and in other spheres. Actually when we break up any relationship which could learnt some lesson for the future it is true for me. And as a matter i had no any basic idea about my future when i was in school i had no any ambitions with me according to me learning is not merely for making money rather gaining knowledge and differentiate the right from the wrong. As days gone when i completed my graduation i realized the life and the importance of studies this due to my past experiences and now i am in the way heading to the success.
@Chiolo (28)
• China
21 Jul 10
It is true that we can learn a lot form all peoples beside us, although i don't agree with your opinion--'Don't lone any one more than they deserve' . Because one of my workmate teach me by his doing, 'more love you pay, more happy you will be.' I'm sorry to hear that you do not like your job. Yes that before we make our decision when choose our career. We need to think again and again, if we really have much interests in this business. But any way, things have been like this, i have a suggestion----if you really have enough interest in IT, maybe you can learn and do it by yourself. You still can find many fans in it. Acturaly, many peoples have no chance to choose their career. Like me, i have been a teacher in a mountainous area in China, and now i'm working in the customer service department of a dental lab. I don't like either of the jobs, but i have to do it to make moneys.
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Don't feel bad. maybe God has reasons why you took that anyways, Maybe your next job is in IT consultant for a business firm.. So you never knew, Maybe it will help you big time someday. I learned a lot with my husband. I'm a spoiled brat. LOL! I mean I think I'm doing good at school but choose to do a lot partying and stuff that it end up too much. And I did a lot of things, That now I know was wrong. My husband actually was having a hard time with me, I don't cook, wll just a few, not good in cleaning, bad in time management. But now I can say that I'm a totally different person, And when i look back I really can't believe how far I am then to now. That's why i love my husband so much..
@Suggar (3612)
• Bulgaria
21 Jul 10
Good question ... When i had chance to choose what to be my future, i thought a lot of things and wanted to do a lot of things, but was not sure what will be the best for me. I was interested in many areas and wanted to practice everything :D But finally i didn't decide to study something special. I was sure that may be the future will change me and i'll be mad, because of the made decisions. Now i'm not sure that was the right choice for me. I had to start doing something, even something what i wouldn't like so much. More experience would be great if i wanted just to make some change in my way ... I don't think u have to be sorry ... Things are changing all the time and u can do some changes in your life too, it's never too late :)