My nerves are inching step by step then....what?

Yes meditation and long walks have helped me quite a bit. This was a very difficult time I was undergoing a year ago. Although all of my issues have not been resolved, I have learned to handle things much better. Sadly so many people around also have issues so I tend to distance myself from them as well as the negativity can get to me as well and I do try to be as positive as I can given the circumstances. Thank you kindly for responding.

You didn't say why you can't collect unemployment or why you can't get so kind of compensation. You are a single mom and entitled to get help in whatever state you live in for that reason alone. When you have a child, you can get some help.

The company investors are caught up in some shady dealings... Like Oh my God how could I work there for so long, 19+ years by the way and end up with nothing. I started really young and am in my early forties, and my two children are both 26 and 24, so although they are in college the state does not consider me helpless. I have owned my home for 21 years and it is now in foreclosure, I have gone through all my savings just to continually pay minimum balances on my bills, unknowingly that I would still be jobless after eight months. So I am getting hundreds of creditors blowing up my phone, no income and losing my home. The state does not help someone like me as they feel I can work. Absolutely but no one will hire me as there are hundreds of applicants for the single positions and well it is easier to get a job when you have one and no one will take the time to hear why I am not working. I am trying everyday to maintain a straight face but what this is doing is eating m alive inside. So can you see now what my nerves are inching. I fall into prayer every other second of the day, with hopes that one day my prayers will be answered. To have worked since I was 16 and loose everything is one thing but to not be able to eat is another. Sorry had to vent for two seconds.

Yeah that is what I thought, never have and boy do not need too right now. I have not been able to even afford to see a doctor and well there is no such thing as free at least anywhere near me. So I basically was asking if anyone knew of any home remedies that perhaps may calm me down as I am really really on edge. I have a ton of things going on right now as a direct affliction of having lost my 19+ yr job and not even entitled to unemployment, so virtually for the last 8 months zero income. Lord knows I have lost track of after like hundreds and hundreds of applied jobs and nothing is giving.. I am losing everything I have as a single parent worked so very hard to have earned. I am ok with my losses it is the fact that I just can't even pick up the pieces to even attempt to replenish my emotional state. It is a very delicate situation with the entire business and well I was let out in the dark. I realize there are so many people perhaps in worse situation than me, however I have absolutely nothing left so I have nothing else to lose but my sanity and well my nerves are inching to get me there. Thanks for responding, I really appreciate it.

Hi Tina! Yes this discussion I did was a year ago, at which time was the beginning of a complete nightmare for me. Though I am not out of the woods yet, I have learned to take it easy, and concentrate more on me these days. Thanks for resounding.

Hello stowyk! I underwent a really tough almost 2 years and was at my wits end a year ago. I have since learned how to calm and sooth the nerves although there are times I still can loose it. Times are so hard but giving up is no option. I have re-affirmed my faith and really praying for a better time. I am glad that I have been here as many of you have been answers to prayers. Being able to interact here has allowed me to look at life differently, I am ever so grateful for so many of you being sincere with all your interactions. Something that I will always appreciate myLot for as here I can forget a few of my offline issues. I am not out of the woods yet but can say that my feelings have been much better from a year ago. Thanks so much for kindly responding. Oh yes exercise and quiet times have also helped a great deal. I have been appreciating nature walking much more now then I have ever before.

Ok, dear.. Take good care..

Oh how I would love a vacation, unfortunately I can't afford one right now. But thanks for the massage tip, I will keep that in mind. Thank you so much for your response, so appreciated.

Thank you I will try.

good luck, i hope the exercises and meditation help.

I actually got up this morning and started to research yoga and meditation. Since I can't afford to see a doctor right now, I thought I try these out. Thanks so much for responding, have a wonderful weekend.

I try really hard, but I think the trying is what also racking my nerves. Thanks for allowing to PM, I will certainly keep that in mind. I have been dragging myself to be on here as my brain in going in so many directions. Thanks for being a wonderful myLot friend.

I feel real sad by that you are not feeling well. I think you need to see your Dr. and maybe he can help you. Take care of yourself. Snow

Thanks for responding back to me

Burnt, more like toasted... Yes am looking into yoga and meditation and a complete breather. Thanks for responding and have a great weekend.

Thank you for your wonderful advice. I will keep that in mind but my nerves keep overpowering my thoughts.

Counseling would do me a world of good. Thank you for responding. Have a wonderful weekend.