Do you like asking for old stuff or used items?

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i see so many people who like to ask our old stuff that can be used. i don't mind giving them away actually. but sometimes it is really irritating or annoying if the same person keeps asking for more old stuff and sometimes new stuff that we have not used yet cause we don't need to use it yet, and they are just trying to hint that they want to have it. but of course they won't say that in your face, but they keep talking about it, that it is very useful, that they don't have that one and that they badly need one and how they wished to buy one but they can't afford and all the blah blahs. i get so much irritated with people who keeps asking for more like they won't have enough and will just try to ask for more like they want to get all the useful and all expensive items they see in our place. i see some of my not so close friends or acquaintances who do that to me every time they visit my place. i often try to say to them that i need them that there is no way i can or will give them. but i do it in a nice way but i actually like to be more straightforward and more frank and not care about their feelings but i don't have the guts to say it that way. so i just say it nicely. i don't know why are they behaving like that and sometimes they will borrow things or even money and they don't bother to return them at all. it just annoys to have such kind of people who are acting like they are some sort of friend of mine just because they are somewhat a friend of the family. but if i have the choice or have the right to impose things to the member of my family, i will just tell them not to entertain such kind of people into our home.