HAve you become a man-hater?

relationship - nurture love
Philippines
July 24, 2010 6:18pm CST
With the experiences we have on relationship, we got broken and deceived many times, is it reasonable to become a man-hater? Have you ever thought about being one? I ahve 4 relationships to date and having been broken 3 times is really hurtful but I tried to strive and keep up my faith on love, As of now, I'm happy with my life with my current BF but I guess I am keeping or something like holding back coz I don't want to be in pain again.
5 responses
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
Been to many heartaches in my life because of guys who are not worthy to love.But after all I had nothing felt any hatred in my heart.I always believe that nurturing that feelings inside your heart will never makes you happy. Life is beautiful when you are at peace and happy can only be achieve through that.What ever happens,thats a lesson for us to learn and next time we will be more wiser whom we will gave our heart again.
• India
25 Jul 10
your view is excellent and u will always enjoy life
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
26 Jul 10
I became more careful around men, but I don't become a man-hater. In facts, I found out later that the ex boyfriends were not as lovable as I believed before.
@cheszka (169)
• Philippines
25 Jul 10
I've been through a lot of failed relationships, but that didn't make me a man-hater. Everytime a relationship ends, I just try to understand the reasons why things didn't work out. I always try to think positively as much as I can, by only entertaining positive thoughts. If ever an ex comes to my mind, I only think of the good things that person has done and showed for me. Whenever negative thoughts come in, I dispense that thought by thinking about some fun and exciting activity that I will be doing or a goal that I'm excited to achieve. That way I completely lose the negative thoughts and often it makes me it easier for me to meet and find new friends again that may later lead to a new and romantic something in the future :D.
• India
25 Jul 10
enjoy things as they are ,do not try to change every thing ,be flexible ,u will be happy
@Fatima27 (65)
25 Jul 10
To be honest, after everything I have gone through with guys in the past I can say I am beginning to be a man-hater. Especially the current bf I have wherein I haven't done anything wrong with and he was the one who got shortcomings...it's painful to be in a relationship with a guy who's still a big mystery for you.