is your lover your first and last?

Philippines
July 26, 2010 9:59pm CST
Is your relationship at this moment your first one? Lucky for you that by the time you have your first relationship and nurture it and end up marrying that same guy. How i wish I would have experiencd that but maybe having loads of experience on relationship with partners make one more keen on choosing the right guy to spend the rest of your life with.
14 responses
• Philippines
10 Aug 10
Yes, my first boyfriend is my husband now. We are together for 11 years before we decided to get married. Well I hope he will be the last.
@besthope44 (12146)
• India
3 Aug 10
Well yes..love is something special in this world.
• India
30 Jul 10
Mine is not first but he is now last till my last breath... Those person who last is their first are so lucky. However m happy with my last since he is nice and treat me well with the love for me only.
@george000 (166)
• India
28 Jul 10
Yes, right now I am having relationship with my first one and I am very happy that we were have long duration relation and we were not having misunderstanding much.We cannot says we will marry as it is depend upon our fate.
• India
28 Jul 10
yeah for me " True love happens once" I prefer for first and last. From my opinion we should love one truly and give our best to him for whole life. Make sure that you love him and and surrender your whole life with him. Be a good lover to proof that love is something which is so strong that cannot be destroy by anything.
@pwnson (151)
• India
28 Jul 10
Sorry i don't have first and last lover because we can't trust today guys. I have been with him for seven years and waiting for him but at last he is no more with me. And sometimes it hits me out of nowhere, all of a sudden, this over whelming sadness rushes over me. And i get discourage and i get upset and I feel hopeless,sad,and hurt. And once again, I feel numb to the world.
@meirhu (367)
• Israel
27 Jul 10
It's not easy at all to find the "right" guy. And if you think you have you will in most cases learn that you made a mistake. Much better to be in contact with a number of guys and to continue with all of them until one of them really impresses you.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I agree that having a lot of relationship is somehow good because you already tried a lot of personality in a guy. You are familiar with how to handle the relationship with other guys because of this experience. In my own case I just have one guy in my life and I hope we will end up together. Before I commit myself to him I personally wanted to have at least 3-5 boyfriend before getting married so that I can really choose the person to whom I want to spent my life with. But unfortunately I met this guy and we spent half a decade together so I change my mind maybe I will have him till the end of time.
@rose005 (254)
• India
27 Jul 10
The one who is with me is not my first but I am sure that he will be my last. Once I thought that I am not so lucky to have my first as my last but now I am very much happy with my current one.
@joiele (49)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
i was w/ my first relationship. it lasted for 5yrs. im hoping for a reconciliation though. so im still keeping my hopes high to get back w/ my first partner. and hopefully he will be the last...
@krnavtr (285)
• India
27 Jul 10
Yea he is my first one and will be my last too.I hate moving from one after another.AS said"first love is gifted from God"So we have to get stick with one and make our relationship stronger.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
27 Jul 10
Ya my relationship with my dear one is the first and last.We always believe our first love is our last,and our last love is first.I hope that he will the last and my life will end with him.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
27 Jul 10
As said that first love is given by god, I prefer the first one. I am happy with my first one and hope he will be the last one. I feel he is the right person for me to spend my entire life.
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
My husband is my first lover and the last. When I was younger I wanted to have more than one boyfriend, but then I thought more boyfriends means more heart break He's a good guy that's why I like him. We were married to years ago and blessed with one beautiful baby girl