is your lover your first and last?
July 26, 2010 9:59pm CST
Is your relationship at this moment your first one? Lucky for you that by the time you have your first relationship and nurture it and end up marrying that same guy. How i wish I would have experiencd that but maybe having loads of experience on relationship with partners make one more keen on choosing the right guy to spend the rest of your life with.
28 Jul 10
yeah for me " True love happens once" I prefer for first and last. From my opinion we should love one truly and give our best to him for whole life. Make sure that you love him and and surrender your whole life with him. Be a good lover to proof that love is something which is so strong that cannot be destroy by anything.
28 Jul 10
Sorry i don't have first and last lover because we can't trust today guys. I have been with him for seven years and waiting for him but at last he is no more with me. And sometimes it hits me out of nowhere, all of a sudden, this over whelming sadness rushes over me. And i get discourage and i get upset and I feel hopeless,sad,and hurt. And once again, I feel numb to the world.
27 Jul 10
I agree that having a lot of relationship is somehow good because you already tried a lot of personality in a guy. You are familiar with how to handle the relationship with other guys because of this experience. In my own case I just have one guy in my life and I hope we will end up together. Before I commit myself to him I personally wanted to have at least 3-5 boyfriend before getting married so that I can really choose the person to whom I want to spent my life with. But unfortunately I met this guy and we spent half a decade together so I change my mind maybe I will have him till the end of time.
27 Jul 10
My husband is my first lover and the last. When I was younger I wanted to have more than one boyfriend, but then I thought more boyfriends means more heart break He's a good guy that's why I like him. We were married to years ago and blessed with one beautiful baby girl