i am really so fed-up...................!!!!

@saphrina (31739)
South Africa
July 27, 2010 2:49am CST
Ever got so fed-up with people telling you to relax, be patient and whatnot? I have had it with everyone who think they can tell me what to do, think and hell even feel. This is just getting my knickers in a serious knot and i am trying my utmost best not to loose more than my temper, here. Did you ever get so tired of people treating you like this? As if they know you better than you know yourself?? This is not the end of this tantrum, i need at least another 4 days. So, excuse me then. TATA.
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@gunagohan (3415)
• India
27 Jul 10
I have had this many times before.. people telling me, calm down, cool down..don't loose your cool !!! But i like to stay with patience.. Patience really leads to success, i never argue with them when somebody says like this to me, i just go away and recover and come back !!
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@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
I can only move that far from them sweetie. I cannot get them of my freaking back. And a walk or stroll won't do it for me, to short tempered for that TATA.
• Malaysia
7 Aug 10
i'm fed up too.... but at different things
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
7 Aug 10
I am fed-up waiting these days, Mario. It gets harder, you know. TATA.
• Malaysia
7 Aug 10
you're so lucky you're fed-up, instead of being fed-down... i need to be fed...
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
7 Aug 10
Can i strangle you now?
@voldrox (7204)
• India
27 Jul 10
This is when i get scared of you Saphrina.. 4 days ?
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Don't worry Voldi, i won't bite, YET.
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@voldrox (7204)
• India
28 Jul 10
That would never hurt me.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
Get a bit closer then. Let's see how much you can take my Voldi.
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• India
27 Jul 10
Hi, The only problem with these people is that they look for an opportunity to vent their own feelings and the moments when you feel depressed serve a good one. A sincere friend may not be smart enough to make you stop crying, but he has learned the best of the arts and that is to share your feelings with empathy. You will find only a few such friends in your life. The rest are just showing off their knowledge. The only solution to this problem is to inhibit your pain. Either swallow your pain or solve it all by yourself. I don't share my problems with anyone until I solve it. Then when everything is okay again, I consider narrating the story of how I gained victory in that close combat. Sharing makes things worse. Not everyone have sincere feelings, so its only you who will get hurt. Please don't give up hope. God will take care of everything, like he always does. Love you a lot. Get well soon. Thanks. May God always be with you.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Biswa sweetie, i don't have any space left for more pain. It gets crowded in here, you know. I actually hate sharing, it makes me feel like a ninny. TATA.
• India
27 Jul 10
I really don't know what to say. I feel as if I know nothing about you.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
What do you want to know sweetie? Just ask, i might answer you.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
WEll, relax, just relax, and enjoy every moment you are having troubles with others. You won't get that much when you get to nowhere land, lol
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Can someone please erase the work relax from the dictionary? Sweetie, i mean really. TATA.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
lol, you're really enraged that you even misspelled word with work. Well, Mr. Webster would be the one angered if you'll mess up with his book. lol
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
That was a little oopsie. Sorry, my bad, I don't care how old webster would feel. I want that word erased from the planet.
@Memnon (2173)
27 Jul 10
I won't offer a word of advice then. Not quite. Don't keep twisting 'em for 4 whole days. You will need a paramedic to restore leg circulation.
@oldchem1 (8144)
27 Jul 10
@Memnon (2173)
27 Jul 10
My certificate expires in September. I'll do the biz, but she'll curse me for chopping them off with scissors!
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Sweetie, it is rude to chop a women's knickers with scissors, you know. But, just because you care about the circulation, i might make an axception, THIS TIME. oldchem, having fun?
• United States
28 Jul 10
I completely understand, I am seriously going through something right now and people in my surrounding keep telling me to stop worrying so much. Stop worrying, um excuse me, I worry about me not you. So tell me why everyone is going about their happy lives and I am still dealing with my situation. Sorry I can't be as resilient as they but I am the only one dealing with my situation and I have yet to see anyone even as much as call, email or text to see how I am doing. I mean I cannot just pretend that things are okay when they are clearly not. Oh o please do not give that shuck story that you understand, please! Sorry for a second I forgot this was about you. I completely understand how you feel!
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
I do have some sympathy for you sweetie. At least someone who gets what i am talking about. Never interfere with my life if you cannot change it for the better. Hope you will be okay. TATA.
• United States
28 Jul 10
Or at least stop telling me to pretend that I have nothing wrong. I am not comfortable in my own skin, let alone pretend to be someone I am not. Ha! I despise when people say they are sorry they can imagine what I am going through. Ah no you can't. I am glad to be a myLot member where here people are very comforting and understanding.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
This is the only place where i can really throw a good tantrum. At least no one can see me then.
@sulynsi (2836)
• Canada
27 Jul 10
I know I'm not being original here, but I have SUCH and overwhelming urge to.... to.....say......RELAX.. and be patient...... *little devil wrests with little angel, little devil comes out the winner in this round*
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
And i thought i was the devil here?
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
rofl @ little devil
@sulynsi (2836)
• Canada
27 Jul 10
"little devil comes out the winner in this round" so, you could read it different ways, either way, you WIN!
@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Jul 10
You should feel happy that... That's what I live with half the time. Can I have a tantrum too?
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
I don't want to live with this, Dawny. And no, you have to wait another 3 days. Then you can have your tantrum. DEAL??
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@vandana7 (69047)
• India
28 Jul 10
Dawny - you said half the time!!! I live it full time. Except when I do throw ocassional tantrums, then things calm down a bit. Right now I am in good phase. :)
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@dawnald (84146)
• Shingle Springs, California
28 Jul 10
Well the other half of the time I am at work, see?
@sagar21 (1583)
• India
28 Jul 10
We must lend our ears... consider what is good ... they may be more experienced in life.. I do listen... thanks for the topic.. have a great day/night...
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
I am not lending my ears to anyone sweetie. They have their own you know. You never listen when i talk to you. TATA.
@sagar21 (1583)
• India
28 Jul 10
I thought..the other way....I'm listening...
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
I will give you the other way.
• Jamaica
27 Jul 10
Saphrina my dear friend we all have experienced that well i think "most" but its just up to us just to avoid them take a time away from Mr/Mrs/Ms. Knows me all lol or just give them a lovely cussing lol. Good luck with that don't let anyone get you all aggravated its the time for fun :)
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Now you tell me this? You should have said this yesterday sweetie. I mean really, now i am in trouble again. TATA.
• Jamaica
1 Aug 10
lol guess i'am always late
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
1 Aug 10
It seems that way, doesn't it?
• India
27 Jul 10
Yes its very annoying if someone says me to relax, be patient and take a deep breath and what not. Its really so irritating. Sometime feels like to hit them, as if they knows everything and got all the experiences. Anyway all the best buddy. I would say to you and as well as myself that yes try to have little bit patient in ourself so that people wont get a chance to say be patient and relax... and so on.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Thanx sweetie. I will try, but i am not promising it. I beat you to it when it comes to hitting people. TATA.
• India
28 Jul 10
LoL don't ever try to hit people and specially if u see opposite person is healthier than u. hehehe
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
Sweetie, always remember, the bigger they are they harder they fall. First hand experience, you know.
@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
27 Jul 10
Hi Saphrina! Please do not get fed up by those who keep telling you to be patient. Actually, they themselves are impatient, therefore, they want to 'test' you to see whether you can keep your patience.. It is always easier for anyone to give unsolicited advice or lecture about patience and relaxation techniques. The difficult aspect is its application. I also feel bad, if someone instructs me to do anything, as if I am a child and do not know about 'right' and 'wrong'. Keep your cool Sweetie and do not get upset by the people, who lecture you.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
Thanx Deepak. But, i already lost my cool. Now they will think twice before treating me like a child again. TATA.
@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
28 Jul 10
It means you blasted them!
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
Well, if you can call a broken nose blasted.
@oldchem1 (8144)
27 Jul 10
Ok Saph!! RELAX BE PATIENT WHAT NOT I know exactly what you mean, when I want to be angry and have my stress head on, being told to 'calm down' or 'relax' just makes me worse!! You stamp your feet and have a good rant, that's what we're here for!!
• India
27 Jul 10
Exactly. This is a good place to vent. If you feel like you can even kill a few of us without hesitation. lol Bang bang!
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
I wonder if they cannot see that those words just really make it worse? Are they idiots or what? Thanx sweetie. Biswa, uumm, never mind.
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
DON'T relax, DON'T be patient and DON'T whatnot.... what the hey is a whatnot? is this the tantrum because someone took your favorite swing on the playground?
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
I have no idea what that means, but in any way. No, i know you took my favorite swing.
• Malaysia
27 Jul 10
i felt like being good
@hexeduser22 (5853)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
My advise is just relax, be patient, and whatnot You can pour all those tantrums here in this very box. We can get rid of those negativity and just leave it here. My box will be a portal to a shout room for you and for everyone who would like to get rid of their negativity in this world
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
And trust my Hex to always be here, when i have a tantrum or two. Thanx sweetie.
@vandana7 (69047)
• India
28 Jul 10
Vandy came in with a big shout, and a bigger bag ful of negativity and left it in hexed's box!
@rosie230 (1674)
27 Jul 10
Yep I have had this quite a bit in my life... yes it is annoying, it is like I am not understood, or I am selfish for having feelings. I am 30 years old and not long ago someone told me that I was a spoilt brat!!! WTF??? I know what you mean, people are too quick to judge you when really they have no clue. Keep Ranting, it will get it off your chest - a rant is good for you!
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I hope so.... Sometimes situation just get even worse when someone tried to guide us to everything we need to do.... sometimes we feel like in prison.... I hope I am not doing that to my angel....
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
27 Jul 10
I did not only rant sweetie, i totally lost my temper on this one. I feel better though, thanx. TATA. No matter how hard you try, Prime, you won't get it right.
@nangisha (3504)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 10
Yeah I face it few times in this month. I had problem with my friend and my other friend tell me to patient and try to forgive. Its really hard to forgive when you feel really hurt inside. Its really struggle to forgive and today I can see her in the face without wanna trow something to her face and says a nasty word but I will never made her as part of my life again.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
9 Aug 10
It seems most of us are having this problem these days, sweetie. But, we cannot be rude to others, just ignore them. Not always easy, but we have to try. Thanx. TATA.
@reckon21 (3487)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Honestly I had more than my fair share of people telling me about it especially if they keep on telling you to relax and they don't know the full degree f my problems. I am a secretive type of person and I don't usually open up to my friend or even to my family. But the know when I am in a stressful situation because i will be facing our floor back and forth. But then I can never really blame them at all because they just want to help me and trying to make things easier for me just by saying that I need to be patient and relax more. Sometimes they do help me and there were several time that it will only make matter worst.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
8 Aug 10
Mine actually got worse, sweetie. But, i am sure i can figure this out. Good to know your family is helpful. Thanx. TATA.
@atv818 (1988)
• United Arab Emirates
8 Aug 10
Those are merely suggestions and it is really up to you if you don't want to listen to them. People around you are merely concern about you. You are the captain of your ship and the master of your soul so feel free to do as you please. Just be aware of the consequences of your action.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
8 Aug 10
I think my ship sank, sweetie. Most of them don't really know me. Thanx. TATA,