Do you have a perfect relationship?

Philippines
July 27, 2010 5:07am CST
Do you ever find the perfect relationship you are looking for? I thought i have before but things does not work out right and we end up going our own ways. But it lasted for almost two years before we decided to end it. It's n=both our decision so there's no hard feeling towards each other. Is there such a thing as perfect relationship?
21 responses
@junnah25 (56)
• Cavite City, Philippines
28 Jul 10
I don't think there is anything in this world that can be defined as perfect. My partner is not perfect neither do i. but there is something between us that regardless of our total differences, we find ourselves perfect for each other. right now, were on our way to our fifth year in our relationship, still going strong and steady. i hope you find your's too.
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Hi junnah, Well i hope will. Maybe someday wheni will meet someone who will accept me for who i am. :D
@AutumnGold (1062)
27 Jul 10
Hello Bluerain. It's sad when relationships end but it usually happens for the best, we sometimes go as far as we can and have to end it. My relationship id far from perfect, we have our ups and downs but they're mostly due to him working shifts, he gets grumpy when he's working nights and I understand that. Anyway we've been together a long time now, nearly 18 years so we must both feel right for each other :)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Yes autumn i really feel bad that time but we have to let it go that way. We have no other options. We'd better end it as friends or we'll be together as enemies. I dont want my kid to suffer with that tyoe of a relationship either.
@jose431 (164)
• India
29 Jul 10
Everybody thinks that when they made relation for first time,they will always think he/she is perfect to him/her,but only thing is that it doesn't work properly.I think that no one can find a perfect relationship in their life.I don't think so there would be such relationship in the world....
@asiregar (866)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
28 Jul 10
to get 100% perfect relationship may be somewhat difficult, but it can not mean for our lives against a pair of always keeping their feelings to not hurt each other or trying to cheat with others likely to get perfection
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
As I know there is no perfect in this world. In relationship i never experienced yet to have it because I know there is no perfect here. But hopefully one day i can find. Even my husband is super good i never said i found a perfect mate for me. Always not perfect for me. I had another one mate but again I know there is lack behind it. Where do I find this? Relationship speaking is the way how you go along the way with him.. not really smoothly...but i can rate is as good.
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
we are only human. we commit mistake, so no one can ever have a perfect relationship,happy but not totally perfect, but happy relationship yes.
• China
28 Jul 10
I don't think there is a perfect relationship in my life.I think life just like a trip,you always meet someone which you could love or hate or just no feelings.See when you have been through a bad relationship so that you would know what kind of a perfect relationship is.But no matter which kind of it is, i'll thank them for being a part of my life.
@jinjer168 (1599)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Hi there! I don't have the perfect relationship im looking for with my husband, but i think there's no perfect relationship really. We're two different individuals but we managed to be with each other despite of all difficulties and differences we've encountered during our earlier days as married couple. I think there's no perfect relationship because as we all know, there's no perfect person ever lived so we tend to commit mistakes every now and then. HAve a nice day!
• United States
28 Jul 10
It's not possible to have a perfect relationship. This doesn't mean that every relationship will end in break-up or divorce. It just simply means that we as individuals are not perfect and we are all different. Because of this we will not always agree and have the same opinions, therefore spats are destined to happen. Compromise is an essential tool for every relationship.
@tweetbird (161)
• United States
28 Jul 10
There is no such thing as perfect relationship. There are compromises and adjustments that make a relationship become solid. Perfect relationships are fairy tales or one of the partners is living in denial, has become passive or is missing out.
@satylot (98)
27 Jul 10
I have 2 to 3 friends and have perfect relation with them. I dont interfere with there problems untill they ask for help. Actually no one like others to interfere in there matter let it be your friend and that is reason for a relation coming to an end..
@weraful (58)
• Bulgaria
27 Jul 10
I think that i haven't the perfect relationship It's so hard to find person to be in Exactly perfect relationship
@lunchz (44)
27 Jul 10
i don't know how to describe a perfect relationship as everyone of us has their own preference on how a perfect relationship must be. to me a perfect relationship is a balanced one. there must be lots of happy moments and also there must be some bad things but those bad moments must be the one that makes the relationship grow tighter and stronger. and also a perfect relationship will only be accomplished when both parties are always ready to give both of everything that they could give just to make the relationship stronger.. just like this old saying.. "it takes two to tango."
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I don't think there's such a thing as perfect relationship. We usually start our relationships, specifically the romantic ones, based on emotions and, as we know, our emotions change over time. Committing to a relationship is a decision that goes beyond emotions. We often get disappointed with our partner because we always have expectations that we want them to meet. We forget that the mystery of their personality is what drew us into them in the first place. Relationships need constant effort for them to work. The moment we give up on trying to make things okay that's when it starts to end. Our relationships are only as perfect as we are, and we know we're not.
@naoimi09 (106)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Maybe I can describe mine as a perfect one. We have been together for almost 5 years nearing 6. Before, I must say that it is not that perfect. A lot of issues arises that needs to be clarified, a lot of misunderstandings that requires patience on both sides, a lot of problems and challenges that need to be solve and conquer and especially a lot of sacrifices that needs to be done. But despite those bad things I must say in a relationship, the memorable, unforgettable and enjoyable time being with each other outweighs all the negative ones. I remember when we experienced the worst trial we have been trough out of those years. The time wherein my family let me chose between him and them. And that is I think the perfect decision I had ever made. I didn't chose neither of them because I really do love Him, and of course my family matters a lot to me. But right now, I'm glad that both of them was able to understand me. My family gave me the chance to prove to them that even though I had him in my life, nothing will change. I will not let him destroy my future, and instead be my inspiration together with my family. God bless for both of us and I hope you can also find yours.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I don't think that perfect relationship exist, same as there is no perfect person. People commits mistakes, so in a relationship there will be ups and down as well. It depends upon the couple how you will make it perfect by sharing happiness and love to each other. I am currently happy with my boyfriend right now, we've been together for 5 years. I am not expecting that we will end up together but as much as possible I hope he will be my husband in the future. If you want to have a perfect relationship you have to exert a lot of effort and just enjoy what you have right now don't be pressured.
@ashton77 (292)
• India
27 Jul 10
There is nothing called perfect relationship. It is the commitment of the partners, the time they spend, the trust they have for each other, the openness and the most important is the love they have for each other will make a relation perfect. Any difference of opinion will be bad.
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
27 Jul 10
Months ago, yes it was a perfect relationship, but now it`s not perfect anymore, now it`s just a normal relationship. It was the early period, when all was just perfect, just like in the movies, but with time, we got used to each other, and things that once were unusually beautiful, now there are normal, how our relationship began to be, normal. That early period, we didn`t argue at all, but now we are often arguing about stuff, sometimes stupid stuff.
• India
27 Jul 10
I don't believe that anyone has or will have a perfect relationship. It depends on care , trust, faith and love and in this age that's not so easy to gain but it takes only a second to snap. Relationships are meant for persons who can understand and know each other very well and when they have strong feelings or are very protective of each other. And in only that way can a relationship work. I thought i had a perfect relationship for the first time, but it was broken before she even gave me a chance.
• Romania
27 Jul 10
i dont think in a perfect relationships...maybe are relationship where the partners respect one each other....