How can I make my girlfriend feel very special on our 1st year anniversary ??

India
July 27, 2010 5:13am CST
After years of struggle i finally found a girl that i truly love and adore,she's just amazing. next month is going to be our 1st anniversary :D I'm really bad at planning such things and I just cant come up with anything out of the box. I know girls like to shop and all but I want that day to be the best day of her life.. thanks in advance :)
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• India
27 Jul 10
U don't need to do or show extra ordinary. We gals and every married want only one things from their boyfriend or husband that his love only. If we get true love of him someone then nothing else we need in life. However the big occasion like anniversary i think u need to take her somewhere outside to have dinner, movie or more important just give your 100% attention to her. Listen to her and say again and again that you love her so much and tell her that she is the only queen of your heart and after that give a nice kiss on her forehead. She will get touch by this. Hope you two be long forever. All the best.
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
bring her somewhere really nice..not necessarily fancy if the budget will not allow... maybe spend an entire day by a secluded beach and watch the sunset in the afternoon.. or have a little picnic there...something that you don't usually do..doing to the mall and dinner dates are really common... if you would like to give her something... if she's a bit childish..stuff toys and chocolate is cute... but if she's the matured type..a cute necklace and a long stemmed rose will be nice too...be creative..=)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
hi there! that was so sweet of you. i admire you for that. if you really want to make that day very special for the both of you. you can have it as a whole day of quality time together. set an itinerary of activities that you both will surely enjoy. an activity she dreams of doing. and the places she loves to go. then at night have a very special dinner with her to some place that is memorable for both of you or for her. or somewhere she'd wanted to be. you can also have a romantic fireworks or an orchestra while having dinner. just make sure that it will fit your budget too. if not, im sure she'll appreciate anything you'd do for her. more importantly it's the time and thoughts you spent for her that she'll appreciate. love does not mean expenses anyway. for me, a hug and a kiss will do. haha. good luck. congratulations to your first year anniversary! more years to come your way! happy mylotting!
@cv1957 (41)
• United States
27 Jul 10
I would give her a candle light dinner then surprise her with a dozen of red roses,champaigne, and maybe some rose petals on the bed. I think she would really love this I know i would.
@rtsh_gup (185)
• India
30 Jul 10
During anniversary time we have to show extra ordinary ....I can make her feel very special by taking him/her out to some out standing location which he/she never visit till now or by giving special gift that makes it the day he/she will remember..in life time....
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
mostly girls love surprises. bring her to a fine dining restaurant then give her bouquet of red roses. or bring her to place were you think she can relax and enjoy.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Jul 10
You don't have to do anything extravagant or expensive to show your girlfriend she is special. The simplest romantic gesture will mean the most to her. Just show her in your own special way how you feel about her. Love is worth any effort. The rewards are timeless.
@calai618 (1773)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Just make her the focus of the day. Try to reminisce. Do the things you used to do. Maybe take her to the place where you first met or eat the food you love eating together. Just make her really special and loved. I believe that if you really love each other, it doesnt really matter where you go or what you give, it's the little things that show each other that they are loved and cared for so of course, dont forget to tell her you love her.
@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
27 Jul 10
You can make her special by proposing her. This is what a girl feels good about and this is what that will make her feel special. A girl's dream is not always to be somebody's girlfriend, she loves it when she is appreciated the respected way, which is being asked if she wants to get married. Do that and she will love with respect.
@tinym8 (420)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Hi Lokeshbakshi, You have received some very good suggestions here. The only thing I would add is give her flowers. Find out her favorite color and kind of flowers and give her a bouquet of those or a mixed bouquet with her favorite flowers in it. Have fun and all the best!
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Happy anniversary! It realle depends on what you both enjoy doing. But I suggest you have an anniversary roadtrip. Like spend the weekend out of town. It doesn't have to be expensive. You can go to a nearby province and stay in a budget-friendly hotel. You can tour the place and have your romantic dinner there. Traveling is a great bonding experience for couples. It also takes you two out of your comfort zones into a place you're not familiar with. In the process, you will also get a chance to know each other better. Then, if you liked it, you might even make it into a yearly ritual so that you two will definitely be looking forward to your next anniversary. Enjoy!
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Wow! Congratulations, finding the person you love is the best thing that ever happened to me and I think your also glad to have her in your life and for that it calls for a celebration. It doesn't need to be extravagant and don't spend too much money. There's one thing that you have to do, make it the day that she will always remember. Do it in a nice place where is enjoys staying make her comfortable with it. It's also good to give her something that symbolizes your love such as a ring. In this way you can show to the world that you love each other. Be romantic as possible because girls really like guys being romantic. Good luck and I hope there will be more years to count. :)