sad, someone cheer me up
July 27, 2010 4:58pm CST
i am sad. i feel dull for days now. my boyfriend hasn't contacted me for two days. huhuhuhuhuhu =) long distance relationship is killing me. please someone cheer me up
28 Jul 10
Where is he by the way? Did he go somewhere? Is that the reason why he is not contacting you? Maybe he doesnt have any more load that's why he cant contact you. Or maybe he is really busy. Dont be sad by the way! I also had a long distance relationship and I always try to be with my friends to avoid feeling lonely. You can also go and get yourself something that you really like.
28 Jul 10
Hi, Hushi! How long you've been in this long distance relationship? Two days would be normal, perhaps your partner is busy with something or exhausted from work and need a break. It doesn't mean that he doesn't want to talk to you but sometimes we also need a time for our self. Why i am saying this? because we're on the same shoe. Me and my partner are apart for 6 years and at start we often communicate and spend hours on the phone discussing anything even senseless things. We regularly exchanging SMS, checking on each others from time to time. But, years passed by things changed, and i don't know exactly the reasons why we less do things we usually do but it doesn't mean we don't miss each other it's just that we also have are own life. A life to discover new things and to enjoy the things surrounding us. Just be patient and understand your partner more. If you sense that there's something to doubt about then ask and confront him. Girls instinct are often true.
28 Jul 10
How far is your bf? What is the reason why he is not contacting you? Cheer up my friend. I guess, you need to keep yourself busy for you not to think about him. If he has a valid reason for not calling you up, then do not worry about it. Of course, I cannot blame you if you think about him. But, it really kills you much if you think of him. If he cannot call you up, why not call him up instead?
27 Jul 10
May I know where is your boyfriend right now?? Maybe he's just busy, in this situation you need to trust him. Just think that you are true and honest to him no matter what, then just think that he feels the same too. Never think of anything that will make you feel uncomfortable, of sad things that you have no proof to believe in. Just think of the positive things, for any reasons make sure you listen to him first, only to him. Then apply the 50/50 rule.
• United States
27 Jul 10
I'm not sure what to say. I never really see my boyfriend either, even though he doesn't live far from me. So I'm kind of in your situation. Our parents and the fact we don't have a car makes it hard. But just stay strong and when he contacts you again, give him a piece of your mind and MAKE him call you or something! You can always got on Facebook and read the "like" pages, they always make me laugh because their so true. like: "the awkward look to the person in the next car at a stop light" or " Dorah..the banana tree is right in FRONT of you!!!! some explorer..." stuff like that.lol makes me laugh