Can you control your dreams?

Philippines
July 28, 2010 4:07am CST
I read somewhere that you can actually 'control' your dreams. There is even a wikihow to do it. I am seriously doubting it. I mean, your dreams comes from your sub conscious mind, so how can we consciously control it? Maybe it just 'daydreaming'
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@joyce318 (139)
• China
29 Jul 10
No one can control the dreams. It is unconscious and you don't know what kind of dreams you will make in night. But someone will dream something that is thinking about in the daytime.
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
29 Jul 10
So sure yours is the only possible truth? Others here, myself included, have had lucid dreams. If it never happens for you, then too bad. But I know it's possible, & if you read the other responses, you'll see that there are other people here who do it! Maggiepie “Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.” ~ Thomas Jefferson
@daliaj (5674)
• India
28 Jul 10
I don't think people have control over their dreams. People can still control their day dreams. I like day dreams and I like to control it. Sometimes I am carzy about day dreams. Sometimes I like to dream about unexpected and sad things that may come up in life. I also daydream a lot about good things that I wish to happen in my life.
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• Philippines
29 Jul 10
I used to do that all the time... But please! stop daydreaming of sad things that may come up. I used to do that too every night, so when it doesn't happen I will be happy. It turned out bad... I became pessimistic and had bad consequences. Believe me it's not worth doing it in the long run!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
28 Jul 10
I don't think we can control our dreams sweetie. I wish we could, though. TATA.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Where exactly did you read about it? I seriously doubt we can control our dreams. But wouldn't it be really wicked if we could? :)
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• India
28 Jul 10
No i don't think anyone can control dreams. They are just born out of our imagination and they die after we get up and it's very hard to remember how it started or how it ended. But we can just remember that we had dreamt about this before when we came across it somewhere previously. That's just how dreams are meant to be i guess.
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@zemma1992 (126)
• Portugal
28 Jul 10
I believe that you can control your dreams, i guess you can't choose what to dream with but you have free will in your dreams, and so many times have happened to me when i was dreaming and knew that i was doing so and didn't wake up, and other times that a dream is so good that you wake up and than i wanted to get back to it, i fell asleep again and continued with the same dream, so yeah in that way i think it can be controlled, and other people believe that if before you sleep you think a lot about something that you end up dreaming about it, i tried that and honestly i didn't dream with what i had thought
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I don't know if that will be considered as controlling it. But I still want to do what the poster above said. I wanna ZAP zombies in my dreams using laser beams coming out from my palms!
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@kylina (178)
29 Jul 10
We can control our dreams only in certain states - it's called lucid dreaming. The idea is in the moments right before you completely wake up, you're still asleep but you're aware that you're still asleep so you can think that "oh this a dream, I can do what I want here". there are tons of how to guides on lucid dreaming. I never tried them but I know it works 'cause I often have that feeling before waking up that I'm asleep but conscious enough to know it.
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@kylina (178)
30 Jul 10
Interesting. Might actually look into those how to's to be able to 'play' with my dreams more. oh the stuff I could do....*drool*
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
29 Jul 10
That happens to me, but not just before waking. Rather the opposite, in fact. I explain more fully further on in this discussion. I usually have 3 to 6 dreams on the average night. Or, more accurately, I start dreaming, & at some point, if I hit a place where I realize I'm dreaming, I play with it, then eventually segue into the next dream, & may or may not hit a lucid moment thereafter. Just my tuppence. Maggiepie “Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.” ~ Thomas Jefferson
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• Philippines
30 Jul 10
Play with dreams... hmmm!
@attente (986)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I don't think this is true. You're right, dream are from your subconscious, meaning, you don't know it would happen.. so you can't control it.. :) we can't even remember some of our dreams.. :)
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@attente (986)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
oooh? that's an interesting fact! I can barely remember even 5 dreams a week! i find my dream kinda funny, so i want to remember them all. ehhe thank you for the new information dear! be blessed! :)
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
We can't even remember MOST of it. We dream 4-7 times a night. So it's 28-49 a week! I can't even remember 2 dreams a week
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• Malaysia
28 Jul 10
It is actually possible to control your dreams. You'll just have to realize that you are dreaming, its called lucid dreaming. Once you've realize that, you can experiment with different kinds of things to do in your dream like flying. I've flew in my dreams before. I've even flew in a nightmare when there were zombies chasing me. I don't know why some people are finding it hard to control their dreams and says its impossible. The only thing is, that if you concentrate to hard to make something happen (e.g shooting an energy beam from your hand) in you dream you'll just end up waking up and if you think something horrible is going to happen while lucid dreaming, e.g a zombie is gonna be behind a door (like what I've experienced), ITS GOING TO HAPPEN because you are the one who controls it.
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• Malaysia
28 Jul 10
Yes, I play a lot of Resident Evil games recently, maybe that's why I can picture zombies in such details in my dream but I've never been able to zap one though just never really tried to face them just thinking about running away, maybe next time. I guess games really do influence your mind. lol
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Cool! I want to Zap zombies in my dreams too! Have you been playing too much computer games???
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
28 Jul 10
Wow, it will be wonderful if we can control our dreams. Then, I will only opt for sweet dreams that bring happiness and smile on my face. Having wonderful dreams make us happy during our day Maybe there is a way that we can sort of control our dream to a certain degree. Most of our dreams are related to our thoughts and occurrences during the day. Have you watch the movie 'Inception'? It has 4 layers of dreams and basically they control the dreams to a certain level.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Really?? Now that caught my interest. I'll watch it right away. Thanks! Can't watch it yet
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Jul 10
I don't see how it is possible to control our dreams. If we could, then people would not have nightmares. Dresams are locked away in our minds as we sleep. We can not control what goes through our minds as we sleep. Just imagine if we could!
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
What are Dresams? Maybe, just maybe, if we know how to, then we could??
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
28 Jul 10
Hi damned_dle! I've never heard anything like this before. But would be good if we could. I would say that something like this may be extremely hard to learn but not that really impossible if one is focused enough and works hard for it.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
29 Jul 10
I'm curious enough. And I'll check it up. Thanks for the interesting topic.
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
30 Jul 10
Thank you Maggiepie. Curious about the health benefits, if any. Will check it up.
@arahvma23 (269)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Hmmm... I have read a lot of these too before as I was so interested in wicca and magic. I am not sure if I have experienced this already but sometimes when I dream of something and I know that I have to wake up but I want to continue what I am dreaming of, it's like I suddenly take charge of being in the dream and concentrate on the next scene. In that case, I am able to continue the dream but not necessarily control it.
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I do that too, but it's more like daydreaming until you fall asleep... And I DID wicca too!
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• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Wow you did wicca? Have you studied it? What have you done in relation to Wicca? I can only get as far as being interested and I do some reading, that's all. Do you think spells and that sort of stuff really works?
• India
28 Jul 10
What do you mean by controlling your dream? its a natural happening. actually dreams are out of control. one cannot control dream in anyway.
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• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Some people say they can.. I don't know. How can they prove it?
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@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Jul 10
Yes sometimes you can control your dreams...I know it sounds far fetched but it happens!...when I have a nightmare I know I should wake up! and I make myself to do so...on the other hand I can stay calm and say to myself do not worry is not real[still scare the hell out of me]do you know when you dream your body is actually paralised? you can not move and that is very scary...in my life I have come to terms with my dreams....sometimes it can actually be funny...I remember once having a dream going to this place and when I saw where I was going I said I Am not going there it was raining yesterday...so that was the end of the dream! Any way some people may think Im not normal? but who is normal anyway? at the end of the day I live by my own experiences[no science here] just me...just a human person who have lived for quite some time and got a lot to share to whom ever want to ask.
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
It's normal. Well atleast I think so!
• United States
28 Jul 10
No, it's not just daydreaming. It's called "Lucid Dreaming". Have you ever had a dream where you actually realized you were dreaming? That's a lucid dream. The next level of lucid dreaming beyond actually becoming aware that you are dreaming is to control your dream. I've had lucid dreams before, and yes I have been able to control some aspects of my dreams. There are even better lucid dreamers who can control almost everything in their dreams. Lucid dreaming is actually a kink in the whole "dreams come from sub conscious mind" theory. (Yes, that is a theory. It's not proven. No one really knows the true reason we dream or where dreams come from or if they actually have symbolic meaning... etc.) When you lucid dream... your conscious mind is awake and can change or control aspects of your dream sometimes.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I remember controlling my dreams but those times I am half awake.
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
I don't think so cause I'm half awake and half asleep at night. I am a bit conscious but I am sleep.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
That is daydreaming
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• Philippines
31 Jul 10
I can...:D haha... But when I wake up my head is pain...:D I really don't like controlling my dreams, I do them unintentionally when I am half - conscious. Sometimes I do it intentionally, but it's a pain...:D
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• Philippines
3 Aug 10
PAIN?? From concentrating too hard to control it??
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Yep...:D Probably or probably not...:D It's like I know I'm dreaming and I change the events that occurs...:D When I do it intentionally, instead of getting rest I exhaust myself - that's why its a pain. Can't really explain. Haha...
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
28 Jul 10
Oh! God, isn't it? Then I should control my bad reams. Ah I don't think we can control our dreams. If it is so, the only way may be to keep awake.
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28 Jul 10
Yes, there is such a thing. It's called "Lucid Dream" wherein you are aware that you are in a dream state. And can control what could happen in that certain dream. Hope that helps.
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Thanks for sharing your thought francesyesha, and welcome to myLot!!! I don't have lucid dreams, but I am 'dreaming' to have it...
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