to know other person position ,i close my eyes and think i am in his /her place

Experts say every behaviour has a positive goal so i guess for me i think of the positive goal from the negative behaviour that a person does so i can understand him or her. That way, the problem can be resolved intelligently.

as you are right to be considerate at ALL times, and able to put yourself on their shoes to understand them. Have to face the reality of INDIVIDUALITY..don't expect too much from others.

When i was a lot younger i could never understand why others behave in such a manner or react in a certain way.I would question my dad about it.One day he told me what you are saying in this discussion put yourself in the shoes of the other person and you'll know.This is what i guess gives you peace and so did it to me at that stage in my life.