Do you care what people say?

Mauritius
August 1, 2010 5:38am CST
whatever you do,you can be sure that there is always someone who will criticize you,do you it's true?
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16 responses
• India
2 Aug 10
It is as much in real life.Being a human being I don't care about what other people says about me.It is you personal and no one can do any thing.So what they says it won matters me.I do care about my self and family.It is their mouth and and their mouth will pain.I do not know whey other people says or get angry when some one back bite about them.so never do the some thing and hurt people .
@swn_chik (266)
• India
2 Aug 10
I don't really care what people say because I think if you are climbing the ladder of success or do anything good, then there is more people to criticize you than praise.I don't want to care what people say but sometimes its good to listen and make correction to what people say.
@saphrina (31739)
• South Africa
1 Aug 10
Honestly, i don't care what people say or think of me. I know myself, that is more important. TATA.
• United States
1 Aug 10
The only people care what they say about me are my girlfriend and boss. You have to care what your boss says about you since you dont want to get fired. And your girl friend or boyfriend. Other then that I really dont care what any one says about me if they make fun of me means they are probably jealous of me because I am so much better then they are lol.
@Archie0 (4669)
1 Aug 10
Yes actually i do take it on me, when someone makes a bad comment on me, because people always comment bad and very few are there who will say something good about you. I really feel so awkward to go into public places due to the way people might comment to me. I want to remove this type of fear inside me but i am helpless.
@llbo1981 (1242)
• China
1 Aug 10
I don't care what people say about me.I consider what the people saying as referrence in daily life.If you think your action is right,do it right now,don't care what other people say.It is almost impossible for you to gain every one approve your actions.
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
You can expect that you will always get criticism. Take it always constructively so that you can better yourself. Listen to what they say, since they see something that may need improvement. just my two cents.
@AutumnGold (1062)
1 Aug 10
Hello Sweetneelu. I don't really care what people say about me. I have good friends and I listen to their advice. Criticism can be good if it's constructive because if we're doing something wrong we need to know :)
@rappeter13 (5298)
• Romania
1 Aug 10
I don't care what others say about me. It is their own business, I know who I am and what I am. I am not trying to be something else, if somebody likes me or accepts me how I am and who I am, that's fine, if not, it is his own business, who cares?
@syankee525 (6294)
• United States
1 Aug 10
well if you ask people about me, most will say i am cool, laid back, trustful, honest, but most of all i am real. and then some will tell you i am the biggest jerk there is because they had started something with me, and i confront them i really dont care if someone dont like the way i dress, the music i listen, or the house i live in, what i drive. to me it dont matter at all. i look at it like this, i belive in treating and respecting everyone the same as i would want them to do to me. and if they cant oh well. i tell people what you see is what you get, if you dont like it leave me alone
1 Aug 10
I think it is very true. People make criticisms beacause they are jelous or becasue they are just critically minded people. Life is too short to try and make everyone happy and to try and satisfy others opinions. No matter what you chose to do there will always be someone who has something negative to say about it all. You just have to do what is right and try not to let what other people think bother you. that is the way I live anyway.
@sjlskl (3384)
• Singapore
1 Aug 10
There are people out there who just like to criticize people regardless if they even know you well. Those people, I take their criticism with a pinch of the salt. But if it comes from someone that know me well, then I take it and mull over it.
@greygoo (798)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
maybe not criticize, but i believe that there will always be someone with a different opinion. and whether or not, another person's opinion is welcome depends on the situation. i'd probably be irritated if i received an unfavorable opinion from a stranger, especially when i don't need or wasn't asking for one.
@narayan2006 (2955)
• India
1 Aug 10
Criticism are welcome when it is intended to help improve someone's level of efficiency and make positive change in ways of working. Criticism merely directed with the intention of hurting and belittling some one's dignity and position,either directly or indirectly,weakens the very fabric of relationship. I do try to stay cool and immune to all kinds of criticism,unless it tends to cause rude and unpalatable effect. I do react to critics with positive and rational state of mind. Thanks.
@olepmis (843)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Occasionally, I listen to criticism for the betterment and constructively. Sometimes being criticized makes you think more positively rather than negatively.
@tomitomi (5441)
• Singapore
1 Aug 10
Hi sweetneelu! It is as much here as in real life. You just have to be yourself, be objective and be sensitive enough to our audience, the people around. You can't please anyone with your opinions but you don't have to be rude.