did this guy like me

@sahm35 (891)
United States
August 2, 2010 11:24pm CST
Hey I remember when I was in college while in Earth Science this guy behind used to sit behind me so closely that I could hear him breathing. He would actually sit so close to me and breath on me that once he gave me his cold. Do you think that he may have liked me and just wanted to sit next to me but was too shy to ask me out?
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12 responses
• Australia
3 Aug 10
I don't know maybe he did and maybe he didn't. You should of turned around and asked him then that way you would have known. I think the question is if he did like you and ask you out, would you have gone?
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
4 Aug 10
True! It was 15 years ago and the times have changed! Blacks and whites didnt get into open relationships back then. He was awfully cute though.
• Australia
4 Aug 10
I think I still would have gone for it, I don't really give much thought to what other people think as long as those I care about are happy.
• India
3 Aug 10
I am sure that guy like you because if he don't like you he may not sit near by you.If he is shy guy you can talk and make him to feel comfortable.I am sure he will talk though he is shy guy.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Yes I kinda wished that I had said something... It would have been nice to see where it went...
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with a caucasian man?
@ANIME123 (2473)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I'm pretty sure that he did have feelings for you and was just shy to ask you out. I think that guys and girls now a days are getting more shyer on asking out people. Still they never know till they ask them out what's the worst that can happen getting rejected and that's it. Really bad that he gave you his cold though I never liked getting sick because I tend to get weak when I get sick.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
4 Aug 10
I didnt like that either... LOL...
• India
3 Aug 10
I think he like you because he was close to you and he might feeling same thing than he came close to you.He may be feeling shy because you to were not frank and may be that could be the sign that shows he love you too.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I guess because of the times, black people and white people did not get into relationships with each other. So I was thinking that he didnt like me. However he wasnt from the area but was from up north. So maybe northerners are different.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I guess he really likes you because a guy wont waste his time with the person he don't like. Most guys are shy to their love ones, sometimes they prefer to keep it than being brave to flaunt their feelings. But I am not sure of that, maybe he also wanted you to be friends. I am not sure but there's a big possibility.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
We had assigned seats so he had to sit by me. I was alking about how he would scoot up in his chair and I would sit back in my chair so that we could be close to each other. It was like he was SMELLING me... LOL
• India
3 Aug 10
By your short story i am not sure whether he liked u or not. May be he liked u or was teasing you. Either of one. But u might understood his feelings the way he talk to you after class finished. So what you think he likes u or not.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Yes it wasnt much more to it. I just always wondered about it...
@krnavtr (285)
• India
3 Aug 10
Its the sign showing you that he loves you.people come near to us and sit when they love only if not they never give dam.So understand his situation as he is too shy to say he loves you.You better talk to him so that he will too talk to you.May be your soft corner of him.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
LOL no no no this was 15 years ago... I was just wondering about him.
@xeroeight (1061)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
I think that guy like you or just teasing you because he let you caught cold because of him. or maybe he only feel infatuated to you because breathing at the back of the girl is not a doing of a shy person. For me shy type person can't event get close to you just like in the movie it do really happen to reality I saw someone that has crush on one of my co member in our school organization and the person who has crush on her really act funny when she is walk in the same way as that person do. and sometime my other friend told us that, that person try to walk on the wall because our friend is near at him I think that is a shy type person not like the one you describe. the person might actually infatuated to you. well its only my opinion don't take it seriously. happy Mylotting
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Well I am glad that I didnt say anything to him then if he was just teasing me. When I told him that I'd caught his cold he said that he was really sorry...
@pirate451 (152)
• India
3 Aug 10
Oh!..............What you say is right yeah of boy have habit like that may he feel shy to talk with you is nature of him and you have to know whether he is loving you or not but I don't have that idea to say about that even than I will tell you that you can make him confidence and and make him frank by yourself than hope we will know detail about him.May be he loving you too much or may not who known the Sicilian person think and view.Until and unless they didn't share than we don't much about them.You make jock in front of him and wishing you get all details and talk of him to you and love you until you live...........!!!
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Umm I think that I understand what you said. This happened over 15 years ago... I was just sitting here thinking about him.
@swn_chik (266)
• India
3 Aug 10
I think may be he liked you but was in fear that things may not go in his way.So may be he just chose to stay behind near you.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Awwwwwwwww I wish that he had said something. we talked after class once. But that was it.
• United States
3 Aug 10
I am pretty sure he liked you but he may have just wanted to be your friend probably not but maybe just maybe.I do think he was to shy to ask you out because some guys fear rejection and just want to keep secretly wanting to go out with you.
@sahm35 (891)
• United States
3 Aug 10
Well this was in a small country town. And interracial relationships are frowned upon. I wonder if this was also the reason why he didnt say anything. I felt that he liked me though. I thought that he was cute. I guess that I was scared to. I was sit back in my seat to be next to him and he would sit up in his seat I guess to be close to me. That's as far as we went.
@rose005 (254)
• India
3 Aug 10
I think that he likes you but can't tell you.