which your friend and which your bad friends how you decide?

I think that good friends do not stab you in the back to other friends let alone other people that are not your friends.I think that people who would be classed as a bad friends are the people that will stab you in the back aswell as the ones that only want you when they have noone else aswell as the ones that only come to see you when they want something.I have found out that i have a few bad friends and this was very recent.

Hi, There are two ways to decide that. Method 1: When you are in genuine crisis, go and meet your friends individually and ask for help. Many will refuse then and there, especially if you need money, job or similar kinds of favor. Some other may promise you that they will think about it and will most probably be able to do something for you. Some of your friends, when you explain your situation to them, will start telling you about how bad their own situation is. Some friends will give words of wisdom and will tell you about things that you should have done in order to avoid the situation you are in now. All these are false friends. It is better to avoid them. A true friend will first listen to you patiently. Even if he doesn't know what to say, be sure that he will be able to feel everything. Silence doesn't always mean indifference. Method 2: This method is rather proactive. But people who have perfected this method are wiser than the ordinary people. These people have a fixed purpose in their life. The purpose may sound abstract or even insane, but whatever it is, these people are very particular about it. One must have sufficient control over one's own mind and must be able to detach oneself at will. The rest is quite simple. You identify people who assists you in your purpose. They are your real friends. The rest are all fake ones. A friend who provokes you in doing something wrong is not your true friend. But in order to be able to decide that you must first have a sound knowledge about the right and wrong. There are still other ways of identifying false friends but they are just variations of the two methods I mentioned here. In the first method you have to wait until you are in severe distress. Then you identify your true friends and act accordingly. Strictly speaking, method 2 is not for all. After applying method 1 several times you may become eligible to apply method 2. It is quite self explanatory, meaning, you will know whenever you are ready. Thanks. God bless you

In our life their will comes good friend as well as bad friend,one of my friend gets om my nerves because when me and some other people have a sleepover she makes up some guy excuse and always calls her mom to leave before she can even sleep over that is my bad friend throughout my life and good friends will show and take us in right direction to go and do always friend when ever we need.Being a good friend is not just about having a good time with others,it's also about how willing you are to put your friends first or point out when they 're doing something you don't agree with.If a friend tells you something personal are you good at keeping it in confidence,or do you go and tell everyone at the first opportunity?People need to know that they can trust a friends with important information and you will only store up trouble for yourself if you are seen as unreliable.Are you able to tell your friend honestly what you think about it,without just going along with it? The sign of a good friendship is when you can be totally honest with the other person,without them being offended because they know you have their best interests at heart.