why is fate always not with us ?

@will_win (222)
India
August 3, 2010 4:18am CST
I guess because i am born as unlucky child on this beautiful earth.
10 responses
@visijay32 (447)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
Fate IS always not with us. Why? Fate is what we do and now what is in store for us. It is ever changing and you can change it by the result of your hands. We are not controlled by fate because it is US who control fate. You want to be rich when everything around you speaks of poverty? You can be rich if you want to. The Divine Providence does not put a tag on baby saying that this one is going to be successful, and this one is going to be a loser, etc. I tell you you can defy Fate, Destiny, the stars or whatever on hell it is called for we are HUMAN.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
3 Aug 10
We are different people, wish different understanding for luck and if that luck, you are talking about, is with each of us, it will be very confusing :) Try to think positive and i'm sure everything will be o.k. :) I'm think that way always. If something doesn't happen as i wanted it, i think "this is how it has to be, because next thing will be better and this is a part of the fate's plan for me" ;)
@med889 (5941)
3 Aug 10
There is nothing as lucky and unlucky and we should always think positively no matter what happen have more confidence in yourself to be able to go further in life. There are many experiences in life which teach us to be more strong and thus not vulnerable under any circumstances so be strong you also and face the world.
• India
3 Aug 10
Think like that and you will stay like that only. Did you know that even Albert Einstein thought like that at first. He was a school dropout. Many people considered him to be a dunce. With such thoughts in his mind he managed to help us create a theory which is still being used in many fields today. When a famous writer once sent his first manuscript to his friend the friend's servant considered it as trash and he burnt it. But you know what he said?"Accidents like this happen." They are all one and same. They have everything we have but the one situation that made them great was that the fact that they wanted to do something. If you think like that then no once can help you. Socrates said "Know Thyself". Try to do that it may bring some change in yourself. And one more thing. You are born here. How more lucky can you get? You have been granted the gift of life and this is how you want to use it?
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
There is no such thing as unlucky child, I believed that everything happens for a reason. What ever reason is it I know that it's for your own benefit, try to be optimistic so that positive vibrations will come your way. Don't be sad maybe for now things are not happening the way you want it to but probably in the future you will reap the fruit of these hardships. Enjoy life and have fun.
@heavan (17)
• India
3 Aug 10
There is nothing like luck and unluck. It depends on our perspective. And fate will help us only if we face the troubles with strong determination.
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
Everybody has their own problems and face different problems in life. You should always think positive and take every problem as a challenge. You should realize that God is always there and will not leave you. Trials will make you a better and stronger person. Then time will come, you'll know that you are so lucky.
@hushi22 (4928)
3 Aug 10
Don't be pessimistic my friend. If you stay positive then you will drive positive energy. Don't say that.
@rose005 (254)
• India
3 Aug 10
Every body on this earth are not so lucky but it doesn't matter, what really matter is what you think. You should think positively. Some people face lots of difficulties and some they are very happy. You should never ever consider yourself as unlucky child while your mom and dad gives the chance to live one this beautiful earth very normally. So think that whatever happened happens for the best...
@esab779 (17)
• Indonesia
3 Aug 10
if you do not have a view of an illegitimate child and make your luck, you're thinking abaout is how you can be who are really his mother and yuor father, because without him you will not be now, you are smart and able to everything-everything, and you star now star looking forward and positive outlook towards the wors possible even