Falling in Love with your friend is the Biggest mistake ive ever done.
By Turingskie
@Turingskie (387)
Philippines
August 3, 2010 6:47am CST
I had a friend of mine for my college years I'm ahead to her a year , for that years as friend i kept my feelings to her because I'm afraid to lose her.As a friend we have a rule that we are not required to fall in love with our friends.But as year's, day, hours passes by i begin to realized that i was wrong falling in love with her the biggest I've ever done in my life.The day i told her how much i love her is the day the day our friendship end. Till now She's not answering my text even a call, she used to ignore me always.What wrong did i did? i know i break the rules but how can i break the rule of love...
6 responses
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Aug 10
i know its a mistake you have done. Now she will always think that you had this in mind all the time. You will have to give her some time to digest this. Could be she will surprise you with a yes or may be she would still prefer to be a good friend.
@Turingskie (387)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
hope she will understand how much i care for her. hope i will be blessed..
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
11 Aug 10
If you fall in love wit your friend then you going to lose that friend for sure. The best ways to grow your friendship once more, i feel you once go to her place and say sorry to her. Even if it is not your fault. And i am sure she will not going to treat the way she treat now to you. Girls are like a growing tree, they understand a lot. GOOD LUCK!!!
@yiyun_h (183)
• United States
3 Aug 10
I think, it was not a mistake. It has to happen sooner or later. The only problem is that she couldn't take it, at least for a while. For the future, my advice is, if you can take her as a friend without love relationship, you may let her know that you prefer keeping friendship with her even though she could not love you back. But if you cannot take that, then stay away from her until your heart find new love.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 10
That's a consequences of breaking a promise, but at least she is already knows that you love her, and if you really love her, you must keep on trying to explain everything with her, tells that you can't hide it from her, and you can't live with a lie by only making her as your friend, if she has a feeling with you than it's good, but after your tries meet an end, then i think it's the time to say goodbye with her, before that happens makes sure that she won't regret it on how your relationship will over in bad ends ...
@westbird321 (232)
• India
3 Aug 10
Oh its very sad thing happened. I think your mistake was u took her friendship meaning to another reason. She was only looking as a good friend and u misunderstood. Anyway, its never happened with me but if in case if ever happened with me i prefer not to say this to my friend.
@kennzsniper (170)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
When confessing your love to your bestfriend it is best to set her expectations.
Just tell her what you feel and if she does not feel the same way, then advise her that you can still be friends like it was before.
