Which would you choose to marry?

@paulybg (127)
China
August 3, 2010 8:39pm CST
If you get the chance to choose between two boys/girls to marry with: One boy/girl is you love most, but he or she does not love you at all. The other boy/girl love you most, but you do not love him/her. Which one would you choose to marry with?
5 responses
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
I will choose to marry someone who loved me rather than the person that I love but doesn't love me at all. I don't want to push myself to someone who doesn't love me back, for sure I won't be happy If I kept on waiting for him/her to love me. They said it's easy to love someone who loves you in return, so maybe time will change my feelings to that certain person.
@paulybg (127)
• China
5 Aug 10
Yeah, I also prefer to choose the one who loves me and although it may be not fair for the one love me, but I would try my best to fall in love with her
4 Aug 10
Neither because it would be to a degree cheating on them. Marriage is about the love and bond between two not one. Keep looking there's plent yof fish in the sea. But i would choose the option of they love me and I would try to love them over time.
@paulybg (127)
• China
5 Aug 10
Yeah, both situation are dilemma, maybe try to find some other guys would be a good choice.
• Portugal
6 Aug 10
i would choose the one that loves me and i dont love bcs i would just focus on him and try to love him and i know that sooner or later i would bcs if he loves me so much thats all i need^^ i really am a needy person^^ so if a guy cares so so muchy for me^^ i fall for him. thats how i am ahah a guy that i love and he doesnt love me i wouldnt choose bcs i dont want to be with a guy that loves someone else or that cant love me never maybe.
@Metatronik (5911)
• Pasay, Philippines
4 Aug 10
It would be a very hard challenge if I will choose the person that I love but does not love me, but depending on the willingness of that person if he will give in or not. I could not also imagine myself marrying the person I don't love while he loves me. Well both of it are unfair but I would also choose the person that loves me where I can see if I would learn to love that person.
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
Personally i would like to choose the one who loves me, i mean ive been in the situation in the past where i gave my all and loved the boy so much but in the end it just turns into waste. I also realized that love can be developed and you can easily love a person especially if he shows you that he is worth loving for.