after break ups

@mauricel (113)
Philippines
August 5, 2010 8:21pm CST
I don't get it... Why do people, after break up they tend to invade his or ex privacy (e.g. email, FB accounts and other the same). I would understand if you the the one that was left behind for another, it is to get even because of the pain that you feel. But what if your are the one left behind, you are the one that was jilted, and left for someone else. Recently I've encountered another story like this. After the break up, the partner that left the girl suddenly change the girls email password. Good thing that she's in front of her PC and make an immediate action and revived her account. Would someone can please tell me what could be the possible reason, because in my perspective I really can't understand the reason or even the purpose of it. It the first place the partner choose to leave the girl for another girl.
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@cream97 (29169)
• United States
6 Aug 10
Hi, mauricel. I don't understand this either! If he broke up with his own girlfriend to be with another girl... Then why is he getting mad and changing up her email password for? That does not make any sense. He called it quits, not his ex-girlfriend. Seriously, I think that this dude has some major issues/problems going on with himself!
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
That is exactly what bothers me... Why does her ex did that to her. If the girl jilted her partner I would definitely understand if that is the initial move that he ex would do, but it is the other way around. Why did her ex have to do that? I can see any logic in it
@vooturi (158)
• India
6 Aug 10
Firstly a break is very hard to take Adding to it leaving for another girl is even much worse People like than dont deserved to get loved Its better to break up than to continue the relationship!
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
I definitely agree with you. The girl doesn't deserve what the partner do to her, maybe the girl did something wrong in the relationship but to be treated like that is unacceptable.
@hushi22 (4941)
6 Aug 10
maybe it's because of the closure. the person cannot accept it yet. it's the normal process of losing someone or something.
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
Maybe you are right, the partner can't accept the fact that the girl could move on, maybe the partner is expecting that the girls would ask for them to be still together and yet got disappointed on what the girl do. Instead of wanting to be still together, she obliterate all the trace of her ex in order for her to move on