Is it possible for a guy to love two at the same time?

Philippines
August 7, 2010 1:59am CST
I have a friend and she has a problem with her boyfriend because she found out that he's boyfriend is cheating on him and after she knew about that she still love that guy!after what happen!she talk to her bf and ask him to leave her "mistress" or the other girl but her boyfriend told her that he loves them both!! If you were the girlfriend what will be your feelings towards this situation?
9 responses
@katie0 (5212)
• Japan
8 Aug 10
I don't find any excuse for those who cheat, but I do understand how it's possible to love two at the same time. I think as he really needs to be with two girls it's for two different reasons, one is love and other is attraction. We can't possibly hurt someone that we love. Not for long. The other reason to feel we can love two persons at the same time is not having lived a real relationship with the other, for example, feeling in love to A and B, but only having dated A and B would be actually the willing to know how that could go, and the not knowing making it so romantical that we think we are in love to B. http://lovehelpforgirls.blogspot.com
• China
8 Aug 10
I don't like such a boy. And i will leave him without hesitate.
@jugsjugs (13046)
7 Aug 10
I think that the only person he loves is himself.While he is getting away with seeing both women he will keep doing it.If i was your friend i would find someone else,rather than putting up with being second best.Either that or tell her boyfriend that she is in lover with him and another fella,see how he feels.
@grenz07 (92)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
im not a girl, but first of all, I would like to say that its not only men whose doing that kind of act, women also do. For your friend, I would suggest that she leaves him right away. You can't consider the other girl as mistress because they are not married and she doesn't have the right to sue her boyfriend in court.
• India
7 Aug 10
yes now days these type of love is common , but we should take about these things in our life as well as our friends also should not encourage these type of loves there will one solution to it plese give a coucil to her mylotting
@aamir007 (130)
• India
7 Aug 10
he is making fool both girls at a time.Its tuff to leave someone whom you love. The same thing is doing my gf nowadays she is making me fool and I wont like to leave her. But truth is bitter one day we have to seprate.
@nobbsy123 (852)
• Australia
7 Aug 10
Your friend should leave him. He obviously doesn't love her. It is unmoral to cheat on your partner that you are meant to love.
@xeroeight (1061)
• Philippines
7 Aug 10
its not possible if you day love then its should be only for one person only and when a guy say he love 2 different girl don't waste your time to that guy his not worthy to be loved. and for that guy what kind of love does he knew? maybe he is infatuated with both of them not love, if only I am a girl then I will not waste my time on such a type of person even if that guy is cute.
• China
7 Aug 10
No,I think the boy didn't love anyone except himself.I can't belief anyone can love both at the same time.Because he or she just have only one heart.