Is it possible for a guy to love two at the same time?
August 7, 2010 1:59am CST
I have a friend and she has a problem with her boyfriend because she found out that he's boyfriend is cheating on him and after she knew about that she still love that guy!after what happen!she talk to her bf and ask him to leave her "mistress" or the other girl but her boyfriend told her that he loves them both!! If you were the girlfriend what will be your feelings towards this situation?
8 Aug 10
I don't find any excuse for those who cheat, but I do understand how it's possible to love two at the same time. I think as he really needs to be with two girls it's for two different reasons, one is love and other is attraction. We can't possibly hurt someone that we love. Not for long. The other reason to feel we can love two persons at the same time is not having lived a real relationship with the other, for example, feeling in love to A and B, but only having dated A and B would be actually the willing to know how that could go, and the not knowing making it so romantical that we think we are in love to B. http://lovehelpforgirls.blogspot.com
7 Aug 10
I think that the only person he loves is himself.While he is getting away with seeing both women he will keep doing it.If i was your friend i would find someone else,rather than putting up with being second best.Either that or tell her boyfriend that she is in lover with him and another fella,see how he feels.
7 Aug 10
im not a girl, but first of all, I would like to say that its not only men whose doing that kind of act, women also do. For your friend, I would suggest that she leaves him right away. You can't consider the other girl as mistress because they are not married and she doesn't have the right to sue her boyfriend in court.
7 Aug 10
its not possible if you day love then its should be only for one person only and when a guy say he love 2 different girl don't waste your time to that guy his not worthy to be loved. and for that guy what kind of love does he knew? maybe he is infatuated with both of them not love, if only I am a girl then I will not waste my time on such a type of person even if that guy is cute.