my friend pregnancy,but her husband submitted a divorce

@cindyhxf (1446)
China
August 8, 2010 1:23am CST
they got married last year,i thought she found MR RIGHT.but marriage not mean all,it means go to other priod of life.it mabye bad or happy.who knows. the big problem is her husband's mother.they didn't live together,but his mother tried to control the son.i think it is sorriness that a mother interfere too much.
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
8 Aug 10
That is so sad that you are not in good terms with your parents in law. Just because of that the husband submitted a divorce and they just married for a year. I just hope that her husband would at least somehow give a time and chance for their marraige since his wife is pregnant and its not good for the baby.
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@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
8 Aug 10
oh yeah,it is sad thing,but her husband asked her don't try to do anthing.they had some problems but they should solve together.her husband thought his mother is right,his wife have to follow his mother's mind.my friend said noway.then the result is divorce.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
8 Aug 10
cindyhxf that is why here in America we do not try as a rule to live with our inlaws as two women in one house is disaster. He married her, and should cleave unto her, forsaking all others. In other words u ntie the mama's apron strings and make his own home with his wife and baby to be. What a mama's boy to kowtow to mom, and forsake his own wife. I do not blame her, mama should butt the hell out of their marriage. thats just so sad a man will divorce his pregnant wife. In my eyes he is monstrous for doing that.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Aug 10
Your title of the discussion is different from contents? I am answering on the basis of your contents. You see war of attrition and wits always keep going between a daughter-in-law and a mother-in-law and it is part of married life, your friend should take it on her stride and should discuss the matter with her husband.
@youless (112108)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Aug 10
I am very sorry to hear that. I don't understand why your friend's mother-in-law will let her son divorce because your friend is pregnant right now. It is always very sad for a pregnant woman to be without a husband at this special moment. It is not easy to pass the pregnant time and she needs support. For the sake of the baby, why not do something to save their marriage? Perhaps things are not so bad yet. I love China
@shibham (16977)
• India
8 Aug 10
hi, most often it occurs in a family where the mother in law interferes in a family and leads the family to misunderstanding. sorry for that sad condition with your friend. have a nice day.