How do you fell when people refuse /reject you?

@Ruby722 (798)
China
August 9, 2010 1:51am CST
Most of us,enjoy making new friends.Hang out together. But if one day.Your friends they suddenly gone.They dont answer your phone call dont text your back.and you didnt do anything wrong. How do your feel about that?
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8 responses
• India
9 Aug 10
Hi Ruby I am not going to make any immediate conclusion, may be the person is ill, might be he/she faced some accident, lost memory, every thing is possible But if this persists, just forget and take things lightly.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
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@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
9 Aug 10
if me, I'm will not be angry and prefers to think positively, maybe my friend was busy to return phone calls or my sms.
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• Philippines
9 Aug 10
Normally i feel down when i'm rejected but in your case, if you didn't do anything wrong and they acted up like that then maybe there's something else that made them act like that.
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@cajimenez (452)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
I'll feel sad .. I'll just give it some time....
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@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
I feel bad when they are going to do that to me. It was just recently that one of my friend that I considered the closest friends seems she is avoiding me. I live in her place for 2 yrs and I can feel that we both close to each other. She even borrowed money for me which I dont mind. But lately when I tried to call her phone she keep on rejecting my calls. I wonder what seems to be going on why she is doing that. I really feel bad....
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@frishy (222)
• Philippines
9 Aug 10
of course i feel hurt, it happens to me also but i learned to cope out they only show that they are not true friends, true friends will not forget you whatever happens even you don't see each other for a long time.
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@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
9 Aug 10
Hi ruby, this feeling of rejection is always hurtig, no matter from whom the rejection comes. Even little children can understand rejection and respond to it with hurt, so we humans as adults understand this better. Just try and find out why your friends are rejecting you, maybe you said or did something to hurt one of them. If they dont respond to your calls, give it time. Maybe after some time, they will get back and then solve the problem. If not, take it as lifes lesson and march ahead. Good luck and hope you solve your problems.
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@alaskanray (4642)
• United States
9 Aug 10
Story of my life, kiddo. I don't know how much of this isolation is from what I have done and how much is someone else but it's awful hard to face life without true blue friends.