How much time you spend with your girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband?

Romania
August 11, 2010 3:29pm CST
Hello I am fresh married and I want to learn something from your experiences.Tell me how is it?The marriage?What do you think about marriage?I plugged into something bad ?:))
12 responses
@ermadear (367)
• Indonesia
11 Aug 10
plugged something bad?what is that?would you share to us?i'm a new married too.soo far is fine,even we know,figthing(little) sometimes happen.but everything can talk and discussing together.
• Romania
12 Aug 10
I mean say if I do something bad,i just joking.
@lulu1220 (1010)
• United States
11 Aug 10
Why do you say that it is bad? I think marriage is good for some, not for others. For me I think I married to young and should have been single longer. However we got along great at first and never had fights. I went along with everything and never questioned anything. As time went on I started to voice my opinions more and then the conflict started. It makes my husband mad sometimes that I do not share his same opinions. I tell him that it is okay if we like different things. We so share some common interests though. So I find myself spending more time to myself and less with him. When we do spend time together, we usually get along but occasionally argue. I do not think we are the typical couple though and please do not judge my experience as the norm.
• Romania
11 Aug 10
I dont say that is bad,i just jokeing,for me marriage is something very saint and beautiful.I will never regret this decision
@aurorastorm (1136)
• United States
12 Aug 10
Marriage has it's ups and downs. The best thing in a good marriage is to have more ups then downs. Never forget to not go to bed mad and to not sweat the daily small stuff. Also it is good for both partners to be equal in a marriage.
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
I am in a 6 years relationship with my bf, almost everyday we see each other and he always visited me on my free time at home. It's just this past few months that we hardly see cause our schedule couldn't meet. For me being married is one of the happiest moment in my life, only if you truly love the person. It has more of down side but there is nothing you can't defeat if you are loving each other and put GOD at the center of your relationship.If you both loose faith in GOD and stop loving each other then everything will go wrong.
• China
12 Aug 10
I havent married yet. Because gf's home is far from my home,we usually date once a week. But we keep touch via telephone or internet one hour per day. I think that it is very important to communcate with each other.Having a good talk helps us know each other deeply. why do you think marriage is sad? Maybe you are kidding. :)
@akopoaysi (740)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i am not a demanding wife and since i am a stay home wife and my husband is at work most of the time. maybe 8-10hrs a day (including sleeping) when we see each other we talk. do things together. and i appreciate when my husband listens. because some men dont especially when they are tired. and hungry.
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
i spend time with my boyfriend at least 3 times a week. it depends really. we don't have a schedule or anything but the important thing is that we get to have time for each other and that keeps our relationship going :)
@mrfdg1972 (3238)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
How much time, for me its years, i have been with my wife for 16years plus our 4 years in college so it now 20 years, I want out NOw
@jugsjugs (13045)
11 Aug 10
I am married and have been married nearly 14 years.It is hard for us to get to spend time together with out our 6 children,but when we do we tend to have a bit of a laugh.I was married before at that lasted about 3 years,as we both rushed into it,however the second marriage i never rushed into it.
• United States
11 Aug 10
Congrats on your marriage.I also have been married for almost 3 years now and I love being married. My husband and I spend a lot of time together. We watch tv together, we have our date night every Saturday night and we have a lot in common. I also make time to do my crafts and for my studies (I will be attending grad school in September).
@2004cqui (2823)
• United States
11 Aug 10
It's not the amount of time that should be measured. It is how much you enjoy each others company and doing your favorite things together. If either one of you find you enjoy time away from each other more than being together then you have a problem. I've been married 27 years. I can't think of anyone I'd rather spend time with than my hubby!
• Saudi Arabia
11 Aug 10
I'm not in the Philippines right now my girlfriend and I just seeing each other at the web.But when we are together I used to spend about a day in the house of my girl friend.Of course I'm working also in the Philippines but in a week I see to it i have one day to stay with her.