How you decide or judge a person whether he is good or bad?

India
August 12, 2010 5:56am CST
Friends nowadays its very difficult for me to judge by talking with the people. Because out side they will talk as usually but by behind they will hate me alot. I have came across with such type of situation. So i don't want this should happen in future. So can you tell me how you will consider or decide or judge a person whether he is good or bad?
5 responses
• India
12 Aug 10
I never judge a person based on his looks or his talks, infact it not good to judge a person unless you have had some kind of good or bad experience with them. We always tend to base our opnions based on what our friends think or what the media says or something we have read. Is it nor true about political leaders, movie stars etc... We have never met them but definitely have opinions about everyone. So its always better to just do away with being judgemental about anyone.
• India
12 Aug 10
Friend according to you i should get confirm by having experience!!! after having that good or bad experience only i can judge him until i can't!!!!!
• India
12 Aug 10
It's very difficult to judge a person. One way you can judge him is by his past. We can depend on what others are saying about him. If you really want to know a person in full, you have to spend time with him and know him by experience.
@megamatt (14331)
• United States
12 Aug 10
It is really something that is almost impossible to do. I can look at a person and you can look at a person, and while we could come to an agreement, it is more likely that we will have a disagreement of how a person. Not to mention, that when I barely know a person, I don't think it is right to judge a person. I think the only thing to really get a clue of what a person is all about is experience. Months and even years of interactions. Eventually, their true colors, whether good or bad, will in fact be shining through. It may take time however. Still at first, you could really not judge a book by its cover. In fact, you cannot judge them by their reputation.
12 Aug 10
It's hard to judge a person when you've just met him/her. You have to interact with them for sometime to really know if he/she is good or bad. And maybe when problems arise, you can finally judge if the person is trustworthy. Don't be afraid to make friends, it's from that step that you'll get to know some good ones. :)
• India
12 Aug 10
Judging a person is really very difficult...it is not at all an easy task. You can't judge a person by talking to him..or meeting him...it is only circumstancial. There may be many instances that one comes across that make him/her judgemental about their friends...like compatibility, sharing of one's feelings and the like. Over a period of time (which may vary from person to person) one can make a proper and genuine judgement.