She unfriended me and deep down inside I am happy

@diamania (7037)
Netherlands
August 12, 2010 10:15am CST
I just received a message from the sister of the boyfriend of my best female friend that I should not bother her anymore. Apparently I had been hitting on her, which is quite the contrary but whatever. Deep down inside I am quite happy and of course a tiny little bit sad about it. I've never really felt at ease hanging around with her.She always had something to remark or say and I was running errands quite often. She only made me be more self-concious. There had only been one moment I felt quite at ease, the first time I was at her home where she was hitting at me and she was being quite the cutey, not that I ever wanted a relationship with her. Note that at that point she was still with her boyfriend. If you believe my mindset is a good one in this case please say so, also if you believe it isn't say so too! :)
4 responses
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Well i'd say this is really good for you. If you really do not like this person, i mean there is a percentage that you obviously hate the guts out of her, then i would think that staying away from her and just accepting her decision would be the best thing that can happen to you at the moment. :D
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• United States
12 Aug 10
Okay if I understand this correctly you are saying that a while back this sister of your best friends boyfriend was showing you signs of interest, but at the time you were not interested because she was with her own boyfriend. But now she of course will never admit that she was showing interest because of course she would never do that or admit she was interested in a female. If I have this correctly she apparently is saying you were hitting on her because she just won't admit that maybe just maybe she likes both males and females. I had to read your post three times to come up with that one. Ok I need a coffee break now.
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
12 Aug 10
Not entirely correct. It was the sister of that boyfriend of her saying I should stop contacting her. My female friend hit on me the first time I was at her home, that's the only moment I felt at ease with her, so I am glad things are over but a little bit sad too.
• United States
12 Aug 10
Yeah it was a bit confusing, Sorry you feel sad maybe one day she will come to her senses and appreciate your friendship, if not well then maybe it is a good thing there is no longer friendship left.
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
13 Aug 10
My English is hard to understand I know, hehe. You're right if she does not appreciate the friendship then it's better that there's none. I now hope she won't be obnoxious by telling everyone how bad I am. I have experienced that in the past and I hope not to experience that anymore.
• India
13 Aug 10
I’d definitely say good riddance! Friendship should never be such that it makes you uncomfortable or inferior or self-conscious in any way. In this case, this was not so, rather I feel she was using you somehow and now she’s found somebody else to run the errands for her. You are much better without friends like her…
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
13 Aug 10
True. I will miss her cute dog though but other than that good riddance. I am not her personal assistant for heavens sake.
@ElicBxn (60894)
• United States
12 Aug 10
sounds like she has some issues and I think you have a GREAT attitude toward what she's doing - I think its all in her head and you are being the bigger man (or woman) by viewing it the way you are...
@diamania (7037)
• Netherlands
13 Aug 10
Hell yeah she has some issues. Constantly and constantly she was bragging about how much money she had. Whether it was direct or indirect. "Do you want to go to the gameshop with me, I am going to buy X new games", "When I am older, I want to buy a farm", "I have a new laptop which costed 750 euros"
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