someone made a negative comment about my youtube video....

@p3ks626 (6538)
Philippines
August 13, 2010 11:14pm CST
Well, it wasnt my video and I was looking into someone's video and some people were making negative comments about it and the owner of that video got angry at those people. I think every time you try to upload a video in youtube, you really cant expect that all people would react the way you want them to react. I think that person who owns that video is weird. Cause he should havent posted his video there if the doesnt know how to accept comments. Dont you think so?
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21 responses
• India
14 Aug 10
well, you are very right. there is an ancient saying.. telling us to ignore the negative comments, and concentrate on those who appreciate us. If we fail to acknowledge the comments, they go away. Even the positive appreciating ones go away, if we fail to acknowledge. so,... better to be prepared to learn through the comments, and ignore if it hurts. thanks for a nice warm-up topic.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
14 Aug 10
Learning through comments?? Very apt words my friend ...
• India
14 Aug 10
thanks for the appreciation .. friend ...
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Learning through comments would be possible as long as we know how to take and whether we are going to make it affect our lives especially if those are negative comments.
• Libya
15 Aug 10
if you don't have foes the you are not successful
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Those negative things part of our lives and they can actually help mold us to be better people and someone said something about us then we should prove them wrong and not go with the flow and just show that we really are what they think we are.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Aug 10
Yes p3ks626, there might be something weird in that video. But, you know, usual negative commentators on you tube, they are able to find just about any fault with the videos. I was once offended with a youtube user just because i was agreeing with her!! I was hurt, but i don't have a small mouth either. Some people should be sugar coated the way they behave with others. I didn't regret doing any of that. I was really mean to her. I am not sorry.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
14 Aug 10
I never use abusive language. There is a way of saying things that hurt deeper.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
17 Aug 10
Actually what happened was that i was commenting on another user, i was agreeing with her. And i don't know what happened, but she seemed to be quite hysteric saying i am dumb, that i don't know what i am saying. She used a pretty rough language doing it and she thought i was a sensitive person, so i could not fight back. I was taken away by this and i did show her, how wrong she thought!!! Some people need to be given a taste of their own language. I don't regret any of it, and she fell silent.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I think I already have an idea about what you mean in the comment you made. There are really things that other people say about us and they are entitled to what they say no matter what it is and the only thing we can do is to take it and it will then depend on us f we make it a big deal.
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• United States
14 Aug 10
This is expected with all post and uploads. For some reason people think it funny and then there are those that laugh with them. For some reason they believe it gains them popularity. It is unfortunate, but good thing as the administrator one can actually remove the negative comments if one chooses. Personally I do not take offense to such negative responses I completely ignore and use the comment as a reinforcement for yet better quality, as I know that online and or offline I just can not please the entire world.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
That person who uploaded that video wants to gain popularity and when he saw that negative comment, he was mad cause its going to ruin his reputation or something. Too bad because his video was uploaded maybe 2 years ago and it only has very few views. I guess the video really sucked.
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
Well, I am a member of youtube too, and some people are really rude when they comment.Its okay if you did not like the video, but some are so outright @$$holes when they comment with swear words and cussing included. So, I would also be angry if people posts such things in my video.
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I guess we cant expect all people to be angels. I think those guys are all there wo ruin our day and say bad things about us but I guess its still up to us on what we are going to do about it. We can either get angry or just ignore them.
@BigTips (304)
• China
15 Aug 10
Why pay so much attention to those negative comments? To be honest, both good comments and negative comments are helpful to the owners of those videos. Good and positive comments can encourage the creator to create as many as good videos; But if they can read those negative comments carefully and realize of their shortcomings in their videos, I am sure they can produce better videos. Of course, if a negative comment can bring them a bad feeling, just ingore it please.
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@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Yeah! It would be helpful if he just took it and not get mad about it cause that person who made the negative comment about him is surely laughing at him again and would think that he is really that kind of person in the comment made.
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
16 Aug 10
Hi there p3ks626, I just filling my youtube.com with two video one is about a dog,and me trying to sing something, aah, it's just for fun,and i would appreciate good comment,and..bad commet too... but bad comment also good for our developing in the future.. Bad comment also a sign that this person also care about us It's okay
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
Good point! If someone is making a bad comment about your video than its ok, I mean, its just something that a person say. Those who are strongly affected are those who cant accept facts and maybe it was something true about him that made him so mad.
@webzap (884)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
When you post something public, you should be ready for readers' or viewers' reaction. Some reactions are full of praises and some are violently. Well, if you don't want to be criticized, I guess you should keep your materials private so you won't get hurt.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I totally agree! I should be posting your comment in his video so that he will know. I guess he just really want people to appreciate his video but not accept those who would be making negative comments about it.
• Atlantic City, New Jersey
15 Aug 10
I agree with most of what was said above me. If the comments- whether negative or positive are used to help the creator learn and create even better videos then so be it. I myself have a youtube channel- and I have gotten one or two negative comments...I expressed myself with a comment back to the user then deleted theirs. Some people like to hate on the ones who aren't afraid to express themselves...like us, the users of youtube ;)
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
The comment in that video was not about the person's video but it was about the person himself. i think it was related to the other video that person made that made that person made such negative comments. Anyway, no matter how negative the comment maybe, its still up to the owner.
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
14 Aug 10
Hi p3ks, You are absolutely correct. Since you have uploaded a video clip for an audience all would expect this or that comment from those who must have viewed that. This is no necessary that all go eye to eye with you. This is rational to think that people have ever divided on their views and comments and this too not be an exception. People need to change their mental set up before posting anything. Nice discussion indeed.
• Singapore
14 Aug 10
I agree with you. Some people don't really think before they post anything. When they see something weird or stupid, they will just 'shoot' and don't care what other people think, especially the owner of the thing.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I guess it really has something to do with the owner who was so mad at those who made negative comments about his video. It has something to do with mind set and I guess they should know that. People are entitled to anything that they are going to say, be it good or bad.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
18 Aug 10
It's a case of... 'if you can't take the heat, then stay out of the kitchen'. I'm sure there are consequences for posting a personal video on line. And to make sure that you get as many hits as possible, you'd have to be controversial. But this also brings the negative feedback, which one should be ready for.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
I guess that person who got mad about the bad comments in his video really didnt understand these things. I think its too sad for him cause he was really thinking that his video was something. I think he just wanted people to make positive comments about his video that's why he got mad when someone made a negative comment.
@kristeena (358)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
In youtube, if you do not want the comments posted, the owner of the account has the power to delete it. Because there are people that has blades on their tongue and spears in their eyes, they can't hold back giving rude views and comments. We should know how to handle such negative reactions.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
Exactly! He should know how to handle it and anyway, whether he is going to deleted it or not, others will still think that that person is like that. So what? If its not true then let them think what they want to think. Maybe that person got angry cause maybe the comment was something true about him.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 10
what kind of video he made and make you anger so much ?? cant i know the link , but if the owned video like you said yeah .. if he want some private room in this net just make a private location for he video or dont put it in this net LOL that man
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
It wasnt me that made the comment. I was just looking at his video and reading the comments. When I was reading the comments about his video, other were saying bad things about him and he got mad. And I guess he was not thinking enough that there are going to people like that who would make negative comments about you or your video especially if that person knows you.
• Indonesia
16 Aug 10
tried to tell him softly and not when he still anger but if you wanted and if you not wanted and do not feel wrong about it just let him be alone for while . go for you work and whatever you do every time you not feel wrong just ignore that man , pardon me who is the man exactly ????
@mcaquino (60)
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
Hi you are right!every people has different interpretation.maybe he thinks that people will react positively on what he uploaded on youtube.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I guess he was really expecting that. I was thinking that that person maybe used to praises and wouldnt want to accept negative comments cause maybe he doesnt want people to show him his weakness.
@dpk262006 (58673)
• Delhi, India
19 Aug 10
Yeah, you are right that users could post any comments on any video, the host should have acted in a wiser manner to tolerate all kind of comments. He should be careful in future, while uploading.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
14 Aug 10
Yes I agree, it is only natural that people would come out with either positive or negative comments about any issue .One has to take it impartially, may be analyse what the person has said that is negative....probably there is some truth in it - all the best and have a great weekend
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I think so too. After I read about the owners comment, I thought for myself maybe its true that he was really it cause he got so mad about it. Well, maybe that person who also made that comment also had a basis for saying those things.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 10
i think it`s consegquent of the video. some of the people appreciate of your videos but some of them maybe laught at you
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I think it is more expected that more people are going laugh about you. It seldom happens that people will appreciate your video. I think its part of human nature that we are selfish and that praises are such a difficult thing to give.
• United States
14 Aug 10
i have people leave me negative comments sometimes, I usually don't mind them unless they're directed at me, and not about the actual video. If they're making fun of me, they get their name blocked and the comment deleted.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I think it also depends on the kind of comments that people gave about your video. Sometimes I think that some of those people know us that they can sometimes make comments that are directed to us. Sometimes maybe they have basis why why they were able to say things like that.
@tweetbird (161)
• United States
14 Aug 10
Some people take their videos very personally while others simply don't allow comments.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I think they should not allow comments if they are going to be mad at those who say negative things about it. I mean, if they dont allow it then people dont have a choice. That person may want to say something but at least he or she doesnt have to broadcast it to the whole world.
• Philippines
14 Aug 10
You know, we can't really please everyone. Even how perfect a thing is for us and for other people, there will be a few others or a number who'd really try to find ways to look for flaws. And all you gotta do is accept it and let it slip your mind or less, it will just affect you, if not, create squabbles.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
I hope the owner of that video realizes that. Sometimes I just wanna post all of your responses here in paste it in his video so that he will know that things go this way and not in a way that he expects it to go. Geez! I hope that person wakes up.