what was your age when you broken up with your first love? I know its a personal

Pakistan
August 14, 2010 6:11pm CST
i know its a personal question but stil just like other questions What was your age when you broke up with your first boy friend? What was the reason? And after breakup you or he/she ever tried to contact you? What was your feeling? I have never faced any breakup but i feel it will really hurt if that happens. Will you share your feelings with us? Huh? Thanks for your responces
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
15 Aug 10
Yes, break ups are painful.They discourage you from new relationships and loves for some time.My first break up, it was at the age of 19.After one date I came home knowing he would never call me again.And he didn't.The reason was the funniest reason ever - he returned to his previous girlfriend.Their love raised from ashes.But something was bad from the beginning.He cried when we had the first date, SHE was everywhere with us, he couldn't forget her even for a moment, so I was just a good friend comforting him.We had no photos made, no letters,gifts, sometimes I wonder if he ever existed.Like a ghost.At that time it was important and painful, now I thank God he threw this person out of my life.
• Lithuania
16 Aug 10
Are you asking me for a public confession?I'd do it with pleasure, but I'm bad at maths.
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• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
oh i see, Thats sorry to hear. If you feel that you are lucky that you dont have him,than its great and 2ndly for how many boys you thought you are lucky nt to have them? Can you tel me that
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• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
oh i see, Thats sorry to hear. If you feel that you are lucky that you dont have him,than its great and 2ndly for how many boys you thought you are lucky nt to have them? Can you tel me that
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@sach143_u (859)
• India
15 Aug 10
Hi friend as of now i started loving a girl and she too from past 1 year and 4 months. But still it won't happen in my life and i will pray to god that it should not break upto my life time. I love her alot and i won't think about it if it breaks so please pray for all people who loving they should not break any more.
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• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
ameen, Thats very great to hear that you are happy with your gf. And why dont you marry her? In india its very common to marriage in love? I am having an affair from 4 years and finding it very difficult to marry in love in my city. People in my city stil hate people those who have affairs. They dont like such ladies
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
17 Aug 10
Hello khan Sahab, I wish I could reply to your discussion, but unfortunately when I was 16 years old, we girls were not allowed to fall in love.. I was the only girl in the family , with strict father and two detective brothers keeping an eye on me........so I had no chance to fall in love besides just in dreams with some movie actors........
• Pakistan
17 Aug 10
helo, Kaise ho bari behna? Shukar hai ap aik typical indian ho hahaha. Warna aj jo kuch ap enjoy kar rahe ho wo na kar paten, You wil remember my words,if u had breakup then you were nt able to love ur hubby the way you did. You are lucky that you never had any breakups
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
17 Aug 10
my dear little brother.......let me tell you a fact of life. Every bad experience of life teaches a good lesson to human being. The more bad experiences you have the stronger you become to walk on the path of life with fresh strength to accept new challenges . Breaking of heart, atleast once in life is very important, it brings you out from those goody goody senseless dreams and shows you a mirror where you can see the real picture of this world and then you learn to live because you suddenly find yourself sensible and matured.It helps you to make right choice in life. so though painful, but breaking of heart is not as bad as you think.
• Pakistan
17 Aug 10
yes, you are right. I agree with you. And i have learnt so many lessons from friends too, every one brings a new experience
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
15 Aug 10
Nina bhai, when i was young i never looked a girl in the face because i did not have the courage.My life was going on smoothly when a girl who used to come tomy building frequently atarted seducing me and before long i succumbed to her looks. she wasn`t very beautiful but very sexy. I fell head over heels in love with her and we started a clandestine affair which lasted for 2 years. I was madly in love with her but could not do much as was rather scared.Anyway our parents found out and that was the end of it.Her parents got her married off and i never saw her again, which was a good thing for me."Surprisingly i did not feel bad about the breakup and was my own self once again.I was around 23 at that time.I think i got "burned out" in that affair and since then haven`t found that intensity to love another girl, thats why i am a bachelor.
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• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
hello veejay bhaya, Ap mujhy pahchan he gay hun gay Wel thats really hurting And seems as same as my story. I was nt a couragious boy till i found my gf,i sent my parents to her house but they trying to take out mistakes in me, He dnt have gud job Do that,do that,do that. Tang kar deya hai, and the heat of love, being living with her is decreasing. Pata nahe agy kia hoga. Its been 3.5 years they rejecting my proposal. How is your health bhai?
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
16 Aug 10
You are very lucky not to have gone through something like that. Most people have undergone breakups, at least in my country. Experiencing it is similar to what some one would go through with the passing of a friend or family member. You can feel sadness, depression, anger, sometimes even relief. Eventually those feelings fade and you go on with your life. It's important to heal before jumping into another relationship. I was probably 20 or 21 the first time. I hope it never happens to you!
@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I hope that you two don't fight too much. That can really wear a relationship down. It's bad enough if people who have been married for a long time fight (or argue), you don't want to start off that way. Do you? I wish for much happiness for both of you, you know that, right?
• Pakistan
16 Aug 10
yes i am lucky mashalah,may be because i sencere with my friends? I am nt saying that you are nt sincere but i am saying becuse i had no past or no future,so my gf dnt want to break up? Though i am very serious and strict? I fight alot with her?take care Bye..
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• Pakistan
16 Aug 10
yes i am lucky mashalah,may be because i sencere with my friends? I am nt saying that you are nt sincere but i am saying becuse i had no past or no future,so my gf dnt want to break up? Though i am very serious and strict? I fight alot with her?take care Bye..
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• United States
15 Aug 10
this is kinda funny but i do remember i was 18 years old back then but it was a long long time ago. And now i am happy with my husband we are married now for 2 years yehey....
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• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
thats great that you are happy and fine. I wish you very best of luck with your married life
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@jeffrynov (130)
• Indonesia
19 Aug 10
I have broke with girlfriend when I am 17th since then I never think to get her back like before because to me what is broken can not be unite again, the reason is because I simply don't know what true love is until now I got 4 girlfriend at the same time and when she knew that she just ran away and cried, she was once called me by phone when we first broke up, I felt nothing I just too much excite when I got my hot kisses with my new one, I realized one thing love is so much beautiful when you really know its presents now I feel guilty but I am not regret it what is already happened
• Pakistan
20 Aug 10
humm.. Thanks for sharing your story with me. When you feek that thng it is gud but after somd time u feel bad
@koditza (235)
• Germany
14 Aug 10
19, career incompatibility, talked a bit after. and yes, it does hurt and takes time to heal :)
• Pakistan
14 Aug 10
oh sorry to hear that, Do you stil that person? Do you still miss him/her?
@koditza (235)
• Germany
15 Aug 10
at the beginning it was hard. but now, everything is ok :)
• Pakistan
15 Aug 10
how old are you now?
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
when I was 16 years old we broke up due to third party, I been in vacation that time in my aunt place 2 mos but in that month we not have communication but he know that I was in vacation when I come home one of my friend told me that he was dating another girl it hurts me to much when I know the girl is one of my neighbor also, what I do is to let them and now I know that I find a better man than Him that give me more happiness and he is not worth for my love that time
• Pakistan
16 Aug 10
hummm i see.. Thats great to know that you are happy with your new bf. I wish that he may love you so much that you are unable to live without him even for a second, Take care of your self and your bf 2.
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