why?

United States
August 17, 2010 3:18pm CST
Why can't i find my true love? Is it me? do i happen to do something wrong? is it because i have a child? or am i looking in the wrong places? i mean why is it hard to find your other half these days.
5 responses
• United States
17 Aug 10
Stop looking and let love find you. It will come there is someone for each of us. This was the case with me when I was younger. I wanted so bad to find love. Then I gave up and lived my life and love found me. I was very pleased at that time.
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• Philippines
24 Aug 10
You don't need to find true love, you just need to wait for it. Enjoy life together with your child. Someday the right guy will come for you. There's always a right time for the right things. How I wish I can be there to comfort you.
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
Oh you will just get tired of looking my dear. Relax! It's really coming before you know it. Why don't you socialize more and enjoy your life. Somebody that is right for you will soon come along and God has a perfect match for you. Before I've been trying to look for true love, but I was only disappointed because I met many guys but I know they are not serious, I just play with the music, but I don't let myself be fooled by their true intentions. And I prayed hard to God to give me that someone whom I really deserve to have in my life. Years passed and I finally found my man. :-)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Sometimes you have to be alone for awhile, its not gonna happen because you want it to, it will happen when it needs to. Dont beat yourself up with those questions, its not you and its not because you have a child its all in time, it is hard now a days but when the right one comes along it will be when you least expect it. So in the mean time just love yourself and dont look to hard it could be right in front of you. GoodLuck ;)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I found that it was only after I was truly happy to be alone that I found the man of my dreams. I was single for a year and a half, the first half it was hard, because I was so used to having someone else to lean towards. I had self esteem issues and depression, thinking I would be alone forever. Then I thought that there are single moms, single workers, single every type of person out there making it and being happy in life, and that's what I would be too. I started having confidence in myself, and I started being happy with who I was. Soon, I was completely satisfied with my single life. A couple of months later, I met Ethan at halloween. We've been in love ever since!