Your Friend's patrner is cheating!

Normally I wouldn't, because I think it's none of my business. Even if the person involved is a friend of mine. But if I could see that he or she convincing himself/herself to stay on their relationship without any effort from the partner, I would take it upon myself to let him/her know. There is plenty of love to go around, but there is no sense in wasting it on someone not really worth it.

That is a really tough call. I had a friend whom I used to golf with all the time....well she was having an affair on her hubby. And I really like him....but I never said anything. I figured they would have to work it out....and my experience is that if you say something.....they kill the messenger if you know what I mean!

HI Sarah... I agree with you... As a good friend, it becomes one's duty to inform the friend who is being cheated with ... Because at one point of time, the truth is going to come out and then the friend is going to have to face it... So before the matters become worse, I would inform my friend about it...

Yes, no matter how hard it is to accept i will really tell my friend that her partner is cheating on her. I too would want my friend to tell me if ever my partner is cheating on me.. It's really not good keeping something to your friends especially when the friend is really very close to you. I will only tell her what i saw, and she has to confirm and talk to her partner so that i won't be the one to cause the break up.

I would definitely tell you. I had the same experience when my friend didnt tell me about the thing that happened to me with my ex-boyfriend before. Anyway, I didnt like the idea that they didnt tell me cause i felt stupid.

It would be hard to keep something like that. But I will not tell her directly if she's too happy about it. I will drop some hints to make her wonder about what's going on and then she'll investigate it herself. But if she will ask me about it, i will tell her. It is her right to know so she will be spared from further pain that will come from the lies that her bf is giving her....

I don't really know what to do because I haven't experienced this yet. I don't want to see them break up. But if my friend's partner is cheating, I think I will go to talk with him/her not to do the same thing again. He/she shall cherish my friend. The unfaithful relationship is so sick and it can really spoil the love. Even if he/she may not mean it when he/she is cheating, but it is still so wrong. I love China

I would stay out of it no matter what the situation is. It is none of my business. I know other people would tell them but I wouldn't. It is just something I think we all should leave alone.

I would tell them sweetie. I won't stand by and see how my friend get hurt. Life is just to short for things like this. TATA.

Yes I will definitely tell my friend. But I will get an evidence first by taking a photo or a video. I'm sure my friend will side with his/her girlfriend/boyfriend if I tell him/her without any evidence. But if my friend still won't believe me then he/she can do what he/she wants. At least I already did my role as a friend.