Suicide.. IS IT REALLY A SOLUTION?

@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
August 21, 2010 11:23pm CST
For a while many people have been taking their own life for various reasons. Some people just feel lonely and dont want to feel that anymore so they just kill themselves to fade away the pain, other think that by doing this they are helping another person (not really sure how it helps but some people do say that is a reason), some people would rather do this than go to jail, there are many reasons. Now do you think suicide is a solution for any problem? Why or Why not?
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10 responses
22 Aug 10
OFCOURSE NOT! they may be in pain but have they considered the people who love them? what would they feel if you gonna waste your life for nothing..God had prepared great things for you..do not look on the bad things but start appreciating life..
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
22 Aug 10
Most of them don think about the feelings of those who love tham, or they just think that they dont care, i guess these people get very disturbed and trying to accomplish a stupid act like this is just wrong. Happy MyLotting
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
If dying due to illness..and in pain..then I guess I'd let it go. We may think they're not considering our feelings. But, have we considered theirs? It's painful seeing someone you love in pain. :-) Though this never really occurred to me, if I put myself in this kind of situation, it's really difficult. It's really painful :-(
@hotpink89 (134)
• United States
23 Aug 10
i am not a therapist or other mental health professional, yet i'm only someone who knows what it is like to be in pain but we can all control our lives and just to be positive, you and i all know we only live once why not make the best of it and i am sure god wouldn't want you to hurt yourself, god is testing us all and wants to see how we can take care of our life.
• United States
23 Aug 10
well yes offcourse everyone has different point of view's but that's just mine in all general, there are many things that we live for and we have to be happy for what we have, and not think negative.
@bloemart (222)
• Philippines
22 Aug 10
No, for it is not the best solution ever, the best solution for your problems is to continue your life. Facing your problems is the best solution for it. If there is life, there is hope. I am Catholic it is against the will of our creator. Whenever I feel the pressure of my problems, I go to church and pray. After that I feel the magic that gives me power to continue my life.
@Edawg413 (10)
22 Aug 10
It is Definitely not a solution to any problems. In my eyes when you take your life it does nothing except that exact thing, when you have the rest of your life to fix these problems. If it is because your lonely or depressed, these things change and will change. But if it is a sickness then you can just consult help with doctors or therapist. I once herd a story about a man who tried to take his own life by jumping off a bridge into the water. The fall did not kill him but only severely injured him, he said to the reporters that when he was half way down he knew he made the wrong choice.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
22 Aug 10
Alot of people must think that is is/was the wrong choice half way. They should try to realize that more eaarlier before something tragic happens. Have a nice day :=)
@nero808 (13)
• United States
22 Aug 10
Personally no because it's against my religion and as you were saying it doesn't really solve any of your problems. It also hurts everyone that is close to you.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
22 Aug 10
Yes, but for some reason they think that it helps the people that are closer to us. It is kind of a dumb way to think :) Thanks and happy Mylotting :)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
It's the easier way out of your problems but it's not the solution. Today was the day you worried about yesterday. See? you survived yesterday, so you'll be able to survive what you're going through today. I think we just have to put things in perspective and never give up. And no, I'm not just saying that. I've wanted to give up countless times but I somehow managed to find the strength to hold on.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
22 Aug 10
Yep its a solution not... I think they are cowards to face life... and moreover I consider there souls will surely turn bad spirits... I mean they will not achieve salvation... thanks for sharing the topic... have a great day/night....
@hbsztsyx (85)
• China
22 Aug 10
Sometimes I thought life was boring and painful. But I think that could not be a reason to kill myself. If I have no dignity anymore, maybe I will end my life.Acutually, I don't really undertand what I am living for.So,Maybe someday,I can't get any answers any more,I would end my life for ever. ):|
@akn1961 (1034)
• India
22 Aug 10
people who are not able to find any solotions to serios problems take this way ,they feel door for futher development and improvement is closed ,my suggestion to these people is have petience ,belive in god ,keep on trying u will get success ,life is very precious do not loose this way ,love yr family ,if they do not love ,u can love other ,love god ,he will give u good things.
@JJun1or (52)
• Romania
22 Aug 10
no no no,it's the most silly thing.