how do you deal with jealous people?????

@abj163 (1038)
India
August 22, 2010 6:33pm CST
hello mylotters..... i am sure that all of you know atleast one person who is jealous at you.... i also know some people like that..... so how do you deal with them??? what do you do ??? i mean do you avoid them or reply them back???
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7 responses
@akn1961 (1035)
• India
23 Aug 10
dear abj ,only way to deal this kind of people is just ignore them and do not give any importance ,never share your good or bad news with them ,then only we shall be happy ,thanks for sharing.
• India
23 Aug 10
i ignore the jealues person , i no talk the person & no sahre the any good or bad news i no feel what is he/she think about to me.
@devijay78 (1575)
• India
24 Aug 10
Ignoring them would be the best way. And to stop letting them know what is happening in your life. If they dont know what is happening in your life, they would not have anything to be jealous of, right? But if it is a person from your own family, then it is a tough situation to be in.
@paula27661 (15899)
• Australia
24 Aug 10
I’ve found that the best way to deal with jealous people is not to deal with them at all! I had a so called friend years ago who used to get upset whenever she felt threatened by something I may have or did that she felt may be better than what she had. Needless to say I eventually got fed up with her and ended the friendship. Jealous is a petty and useless emotion...
• United States
23 Aug 10
I didn't know people were jealous of me until many years later. They teased me so I ignored them. Now I don't know if anyone is jealous of me or not. I still would just get away from them.
• United States
23 Aug 10
I mostly stay away from that person, even if they are my friends. Though sometimes it's hard to stay away from them so I keep my friendship with them, but not hang out that much with them.
@Hatley (164448)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Aug 10
hi abj I had that problem when I met my husband to be, and our employer the head nurse was furious with me for taking the man she thought she was going to woo.When I was pregnant with my first child she was angry and jealous she would go out of her way to send me to do the worst possible cases for a person in her eight month of being Pg. So one day I was trying to change the sheets on this very fat lady's bed, I had to get u p on a stool to reach her back then roll the clean linen up to her four hundred pound back, get down go to the other side and roll her over the smallhump to get the linen over to the other side of the bed. I w as huge with my pregancy which did not help any. Her doctor who was also her son-in-law came in took one look at ths situation. He said{ Patsie Hatley are you tring to lose your baby get down from there." He helped me off the stool. He said, "sit down. I am an obstetrician and you should not have been assigned to my sister. I will get another aide to finish my sisters bath.' He walked with me to the head nurse's office and told her do not e ver send a pregnant woman to care for my sister. shame on you. I want you to write out a leave of absence for Mrs. Hatley and pay her during the leave. I am part owner of this hospital as you well know. this is what I want, if you value your job you will do this at once.P lol she did it and she also told the doctor that I had stolen my hubbie to be from here, he laughed at her, no that is not true at all and you know it. thats what he said. That head nurse was so jealous of me that she went too far an was fired the next day after I quit on maternity leave. She managed to fire my husband just before she was fired talk about vindictive and jealous. He had never given her any reason to believe he was interested in her at all.I never did go back but stayed home with my new baby.
@hbsztsyx (85)
• China
22 Aug 10
I would keep far away from them.Most time,we make a person jealous because we are too close to challenge his position.Just go away from him,and keep a light relationship with him. If you can't avoid dealing with him due to some reasons, you'd better to make friend with him.