young relationships

Canada
August 23, 2010 9:42pm CST
Do you think that teenagers that are in a relationship can stay together for the rest of their life. Or do you think that they need to meet new people to see if thet really are with the good partner. Personnaly i am in a relationship since more than a year and I really want to spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend.I can't see myself with anyone else and I love her more than everything. I would like you to give me your opinion about my story and others.
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13 responses
@aevans (255)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 10
I'm glad to hear your feeling towards your girlfriend. For me, we don't always have to seek for a better partner. We can't get a perfect partner in our life. We accept the one she is, the strengths we improve, the weaknesses we overcome together. I believe any couple can stay together for the rest of their life as long as they still love each other and willing to go through all those obstacles in life together.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
It depends upon the person involve in the relationship, if they are both serious in it then there's a big possibility that they will stay together for the rest of their life. But since they are still young there are a lot of circumstances that both of them will face such as problem with the parents, personal problems and anything that you will encounter in the future. There are only some cases that young love will last so since you wanted to spend the rest of your life to your girlfriend then I think both of you should nourish the relationship that you have.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
24 Aug 10
Hi dreammace, For your age, being in relationship you will need to understand taking the responsibilities of the future. It is a good thing you really love your partner, at the same time you need to understand your responsibilities. So i would say, for now you don't need to expect too much out of your relationship, but keep it firm and strong. You would come to realize about the responsibilities as you both age, just take things slowly.
• Indonesia
24 Aug 10
Sorry to say this, but I don't think teenagers are ready to have a serious relationship. They like to do everything spontaneous, and when they're in love, usualy it's all about passion. You have to learn more about responsibility, hard work, facing sucks reality, having many wrong choices, mistakes, and failure. And after you have done with all of those and still with your girlfriend, then salut to you, you have done well, and ready for serious commitment.
@tatturoy (139)
• India
24 Aug 10
what really matters is your feelings.there's no set rules.if you feel like spending your whole life with her,just do it.dont think what is right or wrong.
@jaydendz (33)
• United States
24 Aug 10
Personally I think its possible to last forever from teenages but not likely. What alot of people dont realize is that...people change as they age. There mind set and all. So yea she may be everything u could ever possible imagine right now..but who is to say how u will feel in 3 years..
@xiaoyue (204)
24 Aug 10
Hi ya!In my opinion, when we are teenagers, we are inmature, so our thought about love may be wrong, when I was in my junior school, I have a boyfriend, we are happy when we are together, but a period of time later, he began to talk with other beautiful girls and ignored me, I am a introverted girl, I am shy to ask him why he did this, finally, we broke up. Now when I recall these things, I feel so funny, I think it can not be called love.But we should be positive, maybe the person you met in your teenager age is the right person, who will spend the rest of her life with you.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
24 Aug 10
When you are so young, you do not always know what you may want out of life. This is especially true of teens. Relationships need time to develop and grow. As a teen, there is still so much of the world to learn about. the future is uncertain yet. I don't think that a lot of teens are ready to commit to an enduring relationship so young.
@AvI0907 (230)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 10
in my opinion,i think relationship is not the matter on age. Is about your feeling and commitment with your partner. I have a friend who started in a relationship with a girl since he was 17 years old. Sometimes they were faced major obstacles but they can handled nicely because they strong commitment and respect between each other. So, this is the cause for them to keep their relationship till now. Have a good commitment with your partner is the most important thing that we need to focus on by avoiding unnecessary thing occur which might spoils/break out your relationship with your partner.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
I do! Hehe. My girlfriend and I got together when we were in our teens. We've been very much in love when we were younger. And the more than we learn about each other, the more that we face different challenges, the more we grow in love together. Now we really don't know how to live without each other and we believe that we will be together for the rest of our lives. I'm one of the lucky ones though who was able to find the one for me at such an early age. I think the reason why people don't believe in teen romance is because they really are too young to be serious. But I don't think people should give them a hard time because they're just discovering love and they're starting to look for the one they want to be with.
@tkonlinevn (6357)
• Vietnam
24 Aug 10
As me, we should have a relationship when we was about 20 years old. And when we was 25 years old, we can think about getting married. If we love when we are still very young, I think that it's only temporary happiness. we'll know how is true happiness when we grow up more.
• United States
24 Aug 10
When I was 17 I started a relationship that lasted 3.5 years. Everything was going great for the first few years but situations change. We both started college. Didn't get to see each other much. The relationship ended and things sucked for both of us for a while. But we both moved on and met other people. That's just my story, but my grandparents were together when they were teens and they are still together so I believe it is all situational.
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
i have my first boyfriend when i was 15, our relationship last for 4 years.we thought at first it would last for a lifetime but were wrong.To make your relationship longer and stronger only both of you can decide it.