How can you be so sure that you will marry your Mr. Right?

@len1415 (195)
Philippines
August 26, 2010 12:25am CST
I heard so many stories about how a couple started out just fine until after a few years of living together realized that they are not meant to be with each other. They, their children, and other people around them suffer too as everyone gets affected with the situation. As a result, their once love story like a fairy tale did not end up so well, in fact, could be worst ending ever. So how would you know that the man you're going to choose to marry will give you a happy ending?
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16 responses
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Hi! I think no one can ever predict that the guy you'll be marrying is the right one for you. Of course a lot of women will like to have a happily ever after ending,but unfortunately only few had the opportunity to have it. It's because no one could ever know. Some couples whose been married for like 20 years or more still get divorced. I mean,maybe we should just think hard if the guy we are with at the present whom we want to marry is the one we love,can give us the life that we want,etc. That both would try to make the marriage work out. I think that's one of those many aspects that we should considerate before marrying the guy.
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• Philippines
26 Aug 10
You may wanna scream at me if I say this lol but I am glad I have found out this truth before getting married. There will be no Mr.Right of Perfect he does not exist but there is a right person God had intended for us. But first is knowing what God's purpose for your life- are you for marriage or are you not? Sometimes we want to get married even if that is not God's purpose for us. Hence the confusion and the heartache. In answer to your question I do believe that God has the right person for us, in His own time He will reveal that person but you have to wait. Oh yes sistah the waiting part is the longest and sometimes burdensome time that will test your patience and your character as well as your faith. But it is in the waiting that you have to enjoy His presence and when your heart is right He will lead the right man to you. Oh yes honey the man will be lead so it is not your duty to hunt for him.
@segungb (169)
• Nigeria
26 Aug 10
Great response. Very accurate. The world we live in is so intellectual that they want to use brain for everything, but God has the final word on all issues.
@dapers (51)
29 Dec 10
The stories you hear are biased. The couple are just too lazy to work things out. The term "Right" depends on how much you want to care for your relationship.
• Libya
27 Aug 10
i know mrs right will come when god says so i'm going to wait for her
@tatturoy (139)
• India
26 Aug 10
frankly speaking, no one is mr.right on this planet.everyone has his good and bad qualities.when we start to like someone we neglect his bad qualities but later those qualities start to create problems in day to day life.so search for a good man,not mr.right.
@xlinzixx (511)
26 Aug 10
i get married in three weeks time and i cant explain it but i know im marrying mr right. i know from how happy he makes me feel and from the way he treats me i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with him. happy mylotting
• China
26 Aug 10
Hi len1415 I don't know for about this, but I think there are no perfect couple in this world, so we have to try to study how to accommodate each other. I think this is the most important thing we should do before marry. If we can accomodate each other, then we will have good life.
@pogi253 (1587)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
There is no quick way to know if you've met Mr. Right. It takes time and patience on your part. Very few people have that phenomenal experience where the first time they meet they fall instantly in love. Most of the time this happens it's more of a infatuation. Infatuation is like going out to a party, your having a great time but the next day you feel like hell. Love is something that comes from within. You have to ask yourself does this person communicate with me in a way that I feel is honest and sincere. Are you truly enjoying yourself with this person, are you proud to be around with this person no matter where you go. Don't confuse great s(e)x with great relationship. Most relationship end badly because one or both person really didn't know the other person.
@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 10
Well, you will never know whether the man we married will bring us happy ending or not. What we can do is just be positive and sure of what we have chosen and be responsible for all the risks it brings. Life is like a gambling court. You never know whether it will bring you good luck or bad luck. I think it is better for you to just live your life. We will never know what will happen..
@segungb (169)
• Nigeria
26 Aug 10
There is no Mr. Right anywhere. The quest is to strive and be Miss Right. If you make yourself right, you will meet the right person. SINCERITY is the key finding the right person. If you are sincere, your light will figure out all the hiding people around you. Just be simple.
@smacksman (6074)
26 Aug 10
Basically it just better to get on with it and accept what you have chosen. Too often you read about how the person changed; how he/she was not the person I married; whinge; whinge; etc. They break up and then marry again and maybe again and again. Please! The perfect partner just doesn't exist. Make do with what you have got unless there is violence involved.
• Portugal
26 Aug 10
we never know if the person is right one or not unless both love each other so so much and cant live without each other. like when you cant look to other guy when you are with that person. thats it wen you know that person is the right one. about me i wish i marry my mr right and be happy with him forever^^ even is complicated to find a right guy.
@sid556 (31005)
• United States
26 Aug 10
Hi Len and welcome to Mylot! I don't think you can ever be 100% sure that the one you marry is going to be the one you would be happy with the rest of your life. I mean, people change, situations change and you just never know. It takes two. Even if you devote yourself to working through any and all problems that may arise and are faithful and honest and loving there are no guarantees that the other person will be just as dedicated. I do think that some people rush into marriage way to quickly and also run to divorce court too quickly as well. Taking your time before rushing to get married, I think in strengthen your odds but still there can never be any guarantees. You can only do your best and hope for the best.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
26 Aug 10
I belibe that only your heart can tell you if you marry mr. right. There is no other way to be sure that mr. right has come along. You just have to take a chance. It's a wonderful feeling to believe you have found mr right and marry him. It happened to me and it blessed my life. If mr right hasn't come along, don't give up the search.
• Indonesia
26 Aug 10
No one will ever know their right partner in life. Even with 12 years of marriage, I still don't know if my husband is the right one for me. We could end up happily ever after, or getting divorce. We still trying to understand each other, and believe me, even though we're sleeping in the same bed for years, we still don't really know each other sometimes, and feel "I don't know this man anymore..." It's normal, and everyday is a new thing for your relationship, and you have to keep fighting for it. So there are no Mr Right, you have to earn it by yourself.
@shia88 (4582)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 10
Hi, Life is unpredictable and it is hard to say whether he is my Mr.right or not,of course, I pray hard that I am married the Right guy for the rest of my life. Fate plays part on my life and it is my fate to marry a good or a bad guy. I agreed with you,some guys may look nice and gentle during dating,but once get married,few years later his behaviour may chance totally and become another person. Sometimes, stress in life may lead to changes in people's thinking and behaviour. I am so glad that so far,my husband treats me well,of course, we do argue sometimes,but after a while,we will patch back again. We , as a woman, not able to see the guy's heart,so we have to pray hard that we are getting the RIGHT GUY in our life.