FOR GIRLS only: How do you catch your men if they are cheating

@hushi22 (4940)
August 26, 2010 7:53am CST
I have read an article about a tip for cheating men and made me wonder how girls catch their men in cheating. do you have any tips?
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• Philippines
27 Aug 10
i only have little knowledge since I still have nothing to caught..lol.. By the way i just learn from other just common girlfriend or wives tales that they just feel if the man of their lives cheat some depend on plain intuition. Some observe their husband/boyfriend done things which they normally do before such so as being too super sweet when in fact it is not the way they use to be and other behavior just changes suddenly. Such as when they becomes so secretive unlike before they are just open to almost everything in fact they would even share the same password in facebook, email or allow you to read the text messages on their cellphones but it changes suddenly. just some of the reasons to get suspected.But better if you caught him with your two eyes then he confess it is better than suspect every little things without evidence.
@unseenzy (171)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
I don't know exactly how to do it but my instinct never failed me. I don't know what's with the girl's instinct but all I can say is to trust your instinct. Also if you start to be suspicious because of his actions, I think one way to catch them is through conversation. If they are making up stories and not telling the truth, its hard to remember the details so it pays to ask them again.
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@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
If you really know you're man then you will know that he is cheating when there are some changes in his behavior. I think its also helpful to ask a direct question. I think men are really not very smart when it comes to tactics. And women have instincts so you will actually know.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
If you believe that to their saying that girls, have their six sense. That what we called the "instinct". I can tell it that is true. When i was in a relationship, i can feel that my bf is cheating on me. There are times that, i feel checking on his phone, which i not usually do. Then ill found out that his communicating with his other girl. Its hard to explain but you just feel it.
• United Arab Emirates
26 Aug 10
Hi Hushi....i know its only for women. But I thought will give you some tips. he will call you many times a dayt to find out where you are. So that you dont cath him somewhere outside. he will try to go in the opposite direction. He will bring flowers and present without any ocassion...just to show that he loves you and that you dont doubt him. He will start doing overtime at work and will say that he wants to keep u happy with more money. He will change the passwords and will get irritated with every question you ask him.
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Instincts and gut feel. I think most women can just feel it inside that their man is cheating on them. Also, if a man suddenly changes his habits or if he starts acting suspiciously, I think its natural for us to start doubting. I don't have any personal tip but I guess its just that situation wherein you feel that the guy is changing, just observe if he continues being that way for days, weeks, months even. I'm not really the type who wants to know his every move. I just would really wait, observe and if I start feeling that something smells fishy, I'll start asking him questions. I don't wanna check up on his phone but if I am desperate for answers, then I would really open his phone, social network accounts of what not for evidence. That's just about it. I would really appreciate if he'll tell the truth himself rather than being stabbed in the back with his lies and infidelity.
• Portugal
26 Aug 10
how to catch? well if they talk much about a girl, if he stops caring much, if you are never first in his plans, if he goes out much without tell you where to, if he stays everyday till late in his work and almost dont see you and is ok with him. thats the show signs that he is cheating i guess. anyway i wish you never pass through that situation^^