is your life hard when you dont love noone?

cute couple - cute boy and girl in love
Portugal
August 28, 2010 11:17am CST
hi guys^^ how is your life when you are not in love? about me i always have a lil crush at least bcs for me life without love sucks ahah how about you guys?^^ you try to meet new people when dont have a love?^^ or be ok being single?
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@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
I don't think life is hard if you don't love no one. In fact, some even think being single is cool and better because of several reasons. Life is sweeter though if you have someone to share your laughs with and all but if you don't mind being single to focus and prioritize in other things in life such as your career, I don't think your life is hard just because of that. It could be lonely but not really hard. Best of luck. :)
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
thats great that you think like that^^ i wish i thought like that too bcs in real life we must think like that but im a dreamer so for me life is all about love^^ i know its crazy but for me without love life doesnt make sense. i be happy when love someone or someone loves me bcs i know no matter what happens that person is there so even if im sad that comforts me to have someone that care so much^^ even im single i need to love someone^^
@tatturoy (139)
• India
29 Aug 10
i completely agree with meemingnew.ya,oviously sometimes you may feel lonely but its not a permanent.so why to waste time,always thinking about it.
• Portugal
29 Aug 10
thanks cristina^^ but still the love a guy feels for you is different than the one that our family feels^^ tatturoy, you are right we must not always think about being single but i really dont like to dont have a bf^^ i mean i would like to have someone always saying how he loves me and going out with me^^ you know like all happy lovers do^^ thats what i miss in my life and i know i be happier if i had that^^
@shibham (17025)
• India
5 Sep 10
hi sweet.... its true that love is an energy to run first in the life race but its not essential. i am a guy who is still single and wish to never marry yet i am happy. i have been betrayed various time so i have lost all the faiths on love.. so being single is my prior choice now. take care.
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
im so sorry for it :( but please dont stop believing in love ok? me also i always liked careless guys and still i didnt lose hope to be loved someday^^ we all have someone that will love us and you too bcs you already got much hurt so will have luck now^^ sometimes i think only bad people have luck in love but dont worry we will also ^^ we get hurt first bcs then we will find the greatest ever that will delete all our hurtfull moments^^ you will see^^
@tatturoy (139)
• India
28 Aug 10
Being single is not a problem at all.On the contrary I feel free.Free like a bird,who can fly anywhere he likes without answering anyone.
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
ahah yes many guys and girls think like that but i mean not committed but still have someone^^ i mean for sure you have your adventures sometimes am i right? we all need to at least like someone or have crush on someone or we feel lonely right? at least there is someone you like dont you?^^ or even if you dont want committment you need to feel care sometimes isnt? at least me i feel happy when i like someone^^ even if person breaks my heart bcs i dont feel that alone.
@nina_khan (749)
• Pakistan
28 Aug 10
Your are right, people here now a days are very commonly in love and those who dont find loved ones feel very bad.. because we see people are being loved and cared by their GF and BF and we are not. then we start to get depressed and start to think negatively. But dont worry you will get a good one very soon. i wish you very best of Luck
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
thanks^^ you are sweet^^ yes you are right when i see happy couples i also want to have a bf to be so happy too^^ all i live for is to have a love ahah i am a dreamer and i always need to have a crush^^ i know that it seems crazy but i feel happy that way^^ i feel too sad if im heartbroken but at least i have someone to think about^^ it shows i have feelings and if this person cares much too even happier i be^^ you too will find a great girl^^