Traits of Your Partner

United States
August 30, 2010 12:59pm CST
I will be the first to admit that I'm extremely picky when it comes to the person I date. Not only can I be petty and shallow but sometimes I feel almost mean due to the reasons I reject potential mates. Let's take an example; previous bachelor #2. Bachelor #2 was blonde, blue-eyed, a lot of life experience, fun, sweet, and very caring. However, I got tired of learning more and more about his non-par functioning colon and his teeth weren't even. Enough was enough after a couple of weeks and I decided to release him from the list of candidates. Does anyone else react this way?
3 responses
@MeNme1 (125)
• United States
30 Aug 10
I don't know I'm really picky and restrain myself from dating anybody. I have one role in my life "I like it then I really like it, I dislike it then I really dislike it. Through my pickyness I end up with one person that got every traits I want (lucky me). I think that reaction is natural, especially if you need to find the person that suits you well. Good luck!
• United States
30 Aug 10
Thank you! Its good to know that someone understands where I'm coming from :) Have a great day!
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 10
yes i know a girl who has been very choosy and her mind has been fluctuating all the time. Whenever she broke up she gave a reason and she immediatley fell in love again to break up again. bow she is happily married and agin she feels that she has lost her interest in her husband. Its really difficult to judge a women of this character.
• United States
30 Aug 10
I've never been married because I think I'm afraid that something/someone better may come along. That sounds horrible I know but I don't want to hurt someone just because I'm picky and don't really know what I want.
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
I think I was not picky with the guys I dated before. Anyone will do I think. I remember I dated someone who was a chain smokers when in fact I am not suppose to be near someone who smokes because of my asthma. After that, I get to date another guy who thinks he's like a model or something. Anyway, I am so glad I am over with dating.