When do nice guy turns bad?

@DenverLC (1146)
Philippines
September 1, 2010 7:08pm CST
Do you think well breed individuals can turn into bad guys? What do you think may be the best reason/s?
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6 responses
@pinkfray (24)
2 Sep 10
i don't think there are guys who are absolutely bad (as there is always something in all of us), or evil, but only when they commit socially unacceptable actions do they become "bad"..right? right? and they turn into "bad guys" when they're imposing themselves on others who do not share a similar perspective or when they're disrupting peace, or creating situations where someone's at risk of getting injured or upset. best reason as to why they change for the worst? i can't say really because there are a lot of guys out there who for so many reasons turn into "bad guys".
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Yah! All of us are naturally good as God who created us is good. However, social pressure sometimes drag us to become worst than better.
2 Sep 10
we blame it on society and its pressures. but really it's up for us to decide if we should turn out good or bad.
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Right pinkfray, its a personal choice.
@Joman122 (118)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
Yes I do 100% believe this. When guys realize that being the "nice guy" is a bad name, they will want to turn well... bad. Girls are attracted to the funny and cocky guys (as said by an article from Askmen) . Nice guys always finish last because they have to listen to everyone else's problems and they let women shape them in to a wussie. It took me time to realize that being a nice guy was being the guy who will never get a girl. However, if you were a "nice girl" maybe something tragic happened in their life with caused a behaviour shift, that or they are going through menopause.
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Hmmm.. Nice analysis. But I still believe good women wants to have good man. You can be nice, but bad in bed hahaha for the women to stick if that's what they only want instead of love without condition.
2 Sep 10
i met two kinds of nice guys in my life: - those who were agreeable and went to great lengths to impress a girl, hence got the girl - those who were clueless. i'm a girl and i like "nice guys" over the "bad" ones. i'm actually going out a really good man myself, but i dated several smartass guys in the past too. i think i can never let my guard down with the latter, like i always need to be on the look out whether they're on to something that'll get me (emotionally) burned in the end.
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Behind every b.i.t.c.h is a man that made him such way... So every time i encounter a mean person, i turn bad... I go b.i.t.c.h.y. :)
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Hmmm,.. So it could be that nice guy turns bad when left with no choice by bad guys. That's true also.
@capiks (40)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 10
Well maybe true. It depends on the environment. The genes do not control the personality. If the environment (friend, family) is good then he/she will likely to be a good guy.
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
So you are agreeing to the point that nice guys turn into bad guys when influenced by strong pressure too..Nice hearing from you.
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
maybe because he was too nice.. he's just keeping all his heartaches... then he bursts! and then he turns to be a bad guy.
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
One nice point..be expressive to stay good and nice.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
2 Sep 10
For one reason to be sure, that particular nice guy encountered a dramatic trauma that he can't handle it anymore. That is one reason most nice guys turn into a villain. What else can that be?
@DenverLC (1146)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
That is correct. Past bad experiences will sometimes change a good person to a bad guy. The degree of emotional, mental, social or even physical effect maybe the main considerations here.