How Has Love Changed You?

United States
September 5, 2010 8:21pm CST
I've been told before that once you're in love, you discover different parts of your personality or realize more about you- as if love has changed you. I believed it but I wasn't ready for how it was going to change me. I love my boyfriend so much. We've been dating for a little over than a year. Throughout this past year, I realized that I have become more sensitive, more emotional about certain things. I never use to be like this but now my emotions are like on hyper drive. Have you noticed changes in your because of love?
10 responses
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Like you, i have also noticed that i have become more sensitive and too emotional. I was never like this before and i really asked myself onetime 'does love really changes you that much?'. Well i guess so, when we fall in love we get too sensitive even for the smallest kind of thing and get too emotional and react too much for small misunderstandings. I never cry before even if i feel really the smallest and downiest person on earth, i have a very strong heart and knows how to hold my emotions. But now that i am in love..i can totally say that i have changed a "LOT".
• United States
6 Sep 10
Well I'm glad that I'm not the only one. lol. Now I feel a little less absurd. Happy mylotting :)
@Absinto (2397)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
I also became more emotional. And i was a very tough girl back then. Now i actually act like one. Everything for him i say. He changed me even more.
6 Sep 10
love change the way you look in to the realities of life. you become fulfilled when you love someone. you become caring, you become aware of your partners needs, you become more sensitive, you become more emotional. its love. luv bug again.
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
love changes people^^ when i had my first bf i started to be more emotional, more sweet, always caring for him :) i changed for a better person :) but then i changed too bcs was so hurt my head now is not like before. i cry so easily. but yes love changes people sometimes for good person sometimes for bad. like those guys that love too much and are left. they become playboys. also happens with girls. love has good and bad things :) but a true love that is shared for both people that one just good ones^^
@sweechi (157)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
because of love, you change. I also change because of love, like before i dont like working in the computer or cooking meals, but because of love, i learn to love working in the computer or even cooking meals. I like to learn things which i dont want to before. I also change to understanding more his situation rather than being selfish with what i want. I also become more attach to people.
@rhej25 (18)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
i agree with you. . love influences us most.. and sometimes its not good at all. . like being too emotional..sometimes our emotions makes a relationship with our partner in trouble. . me too.. i became more jealousy and i started to think bad things that my bf might have other girl which most of the time causes are fightings. . i hope i can change my attitude ..
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I can really relate with this one.haha. It's true.. Love can change your life. You can never can tell. It changes you in least unexpected ways. But, mind you. Be very careful. I would like to ask you if you believe in the saying that "too much love can kill you"? And do you really know the TRUE meaning of love?? ^_^
@rhodzptc (1319)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
what you are experiencing at this moment is only the first stage of changes in your life for being inlove the second part will be the jealousy then there will come trust and respect and the last part is that you will become more mature and grow. I been through that too.
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I think love can help a person change. Real change comes from within, from something you already know, need and want.Love , the right kind can definitely stimulate that motivation one might need to move forward with change. Everything that happens in life has the potential to change us...love can change us if we allow it to happen and sometimes it can bring out the best in us.
@simonelee (2721)
• China
6 Sep 10
Love changed me completely. Let's say i become a good person, a better one. Has a sense of direction in life, have goals, ambitious, and a bit closer to the ONE ABOVE. And as what you've stated above i also become sensitive and emotional and demanding too? I know that i never been this before with my previous relationships and for the first time i feel love and be loved by the person i truly love. And oh become sweet and caring too. Love changed me entirely.
@rustyhalo (103)
6 Sep 10
good day my lotter. before answering you question there is no love in this planet between girl and boy. because the love = the eternity and no relationship has succeed to the eternity unless the mariage :) so no answer for your question. peace