if you had a bf online and you wanted know if he is faithfull to you would you..

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Portugal
September 8, 2010 5:42pm CST
hi guys^^ if you had a bf/gf online would you add him or maybe if you met him in a chatroom enter with a different name to see if he was faithfull to you? ^^ what if he wasnt? what would you do? i would for sure end all right away. and if he was? wouldnt you feel bad for what you did? about me i would tell him what i did, but i would say was only to be sure he loves me as much as i love him and was afraid to be hurt bcs we live too far and didnt meet near yet. what about you guys? what would you guys do? ^^
2 responses
@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 10
Well, I used to not believe in this internet love. But I did fall for this kind of thing once. And, I would like to say, it is useless to believe in that. Though I know that everything can happen in this world. Just don't put 100% of your heart and hope too much in it. Or you will fall and hurt yourself bad when it isn't work as you wish it will be..
• Portugal
9 Sep 10
yes i experienced it before and didnt work well and yes i got much hurt and yes didnt worth it. anyway i know about many online relationships that work well and people really love each other bcs i have friends online that have relationships online and both are my friends and are lovers in online world and dont cheat but it is needed that both be committed to it and meet each other near soon :) sorry that your story didnt end well :( anyway wish you find right guy for you soon^^ thanks for your answer^^ and for worry^^
@GemmaR (8526)
9 Sep 10
I would never have a boyfriend online, because you just can't trust them. If all you're seeing is the text that they send to you, how can you be sure that they're not just sending exactly the same messages to everyone else on their friends lists! You just don't know at all. If you did test it out and make a new profile, you would be more than likely to find that he would "cheat" on you, and start flirting with the new profile, as he thinks it is another girl flirting with him. It's a dangerous thing to do, but if you're sure you want to know the truth, then go for it.
• Portugal
9 Sep 10
yes gemma i understand your point ^^ but yes is like if you have a relationship online is hard to trust the person unless you are friend of a friend of him that talks with you. like there is a guy that i talk online since 2 years and half i think already and his sister started to talk with me at few time and she knows her brother loves me and i know this is true bcs even his real friends in pinas can see what he says to me^^ and his sister too knows about it. he even gave me his real address what is needed a big trust and i sent him a friendship ring :) he is not my bf we are just friends but him i know he is trustful^^ bcs he gave already many proves of it but you are right in a way that is online we never are sure how someone is completely unless you know him very well or if he is friend of a friend of yours that live near you and she gave him your address :)