Which partner would you prefer?

@Lore2009 (7378)
United States
September 9, 2010 5:57pm CST
Which partner would you prefer? Someone who is very compulsive and needs everything tidy and clean or someone who is very very messy and doesn't mind things dirty?
8 responses
@joobie (13)
• Canada
11 Sep 10
Hmm.. both options are difficult to choose from. IMO, I would choose the 2nd one. I already have experience with the first option. Every moment, she would complain how messy everything is and expects the room to be tidy everyday. It's impossible to keep the house clean 24/7 due to the fact that there is dust and bacteria lurking around the house, even though our naked eye cannot see the fact that they are there. I preferred to choose the 2nd option since I could help them learn how being messy is okay, since no one is perfect, but if you choose to live a life where being Messy all the time can lead to harmful diseases/bacterias that can make you sick, that is a terrible lifestyle choice to make. Therefore, I would come and help them learn how to live life without any mess in the near future or in the present.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
14 Sep 10
That's true... I thought I would prefer the partner who is tidy so they can do all the cleaning, but if they are naggy too then, forget it. But you make a good point that people can change and you can help lead someone toward another behavior.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Sep 10
I hate coming home looking at the sink and its dirty. I hate coming home and the bed is still messy and the place is messy as a whole so I'd rather choose someone who is neat and clean as long as he will be the one who is going to clean the area and not me.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
11 Sep 10
Hahah, sound like a good plan. I hate it when things are disgusting too.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
for me, i think i prefer to be with someone who wants the place and things tidy and clean. i think i won't be able to live with a person who is not clean with his things, or at his home.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Sep 10
Me too. I can't stand guys who are messy.. especially in my house.
• United States
10 Sep 10
I prefer someone who is tidy and clean because I am that way for the most part and I can't stand to be around messy and dirty things. I think it is disgusting so that persona and I would clash badly if that were the case.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Sep 10
Yes, it is an important factor for compatibility. I agree.
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
I prefer a partner who is neat and clean.I don't want to live with a messy guy.I wouldn't mind having a partner who is tidy around the house.he should be tidy and neat with himself too.he should be taking a bath everyday and wear clean clothes.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Sep 10
I agree, clean is healthier!
@sadie213 (160)
• United States
10 Sep 10
well someone that clean not that dirty!!!!
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
10 Sep 10
Thanks for your comment!!!
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
9 Sep 10
I think compulsive would be a little easier for me to deal with. I do not mind a couple of dishes in the sink now and then, and I do not mind letting the laundry go for a day or two, but other than that, I do not deal with laziness very well, and most of the time, I don't let things get too far out of hand before I clean them up. I have seen what really lazy and dirty looks like, but I don't go into their house anymore...
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
9 Sep 10
Yes, I agree, and if your partner likes to clean then they can take care of it for you. :p
9 Sep 10
That is a very hard one to decide. But I would prefer to have someone who is compulsive and needs everything tidy. Then they would be not so compulsive living with me and at the same time I wouldn't have some woman I have to continually clear up after, I already have a girl in my life I have to clear up after, I do not need another!
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
9 Sep 10
I think that would be a beneficial choice for you if you don't like to clean, cause then, she'd do it all for you! Haha.