do you prefer to be happy in love with one person or free with many ones?^^

meant to be together^^ - boy and girl attached to each other
Portugal
September 10, 2010 2:34pm CST
hi guys^^ do you prefer to be happy in love with one person or have a free life where you date this person without comprimises to if things go wrong you just find someone else? like make out with someone without being committed :) what life do you guys prefer?^^ about me i dont have bf now but i rather have a life with only one guy but date him for awhile to be sure he is the right for me and loves me^^ but sure date only him^^ but things going slow^^ what about you guys? please share^^
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@swissheart (6469)
• Romania
2 Oct 10
I had a relationship with a guy and I suffered a lot. I coudn't get over it and noy I can;t involve myself in an emotional relationship. I'm with a guy right now and I hope it will work, but to tell you the truth I don' t love him,....I can;t really love him
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
aw im sorry that your ex hurt you so much :( i see that still now you didnt recover completely and im sorry that you dont love your bf with whom you are now. why dont you talk to him and say what is happening? just say that you thought you were ready to date again but still you are not totally ok and if you can just go out for now but dont be lovers?^^ if he love you he will understand that you need more time and will wait till you love him^^
• Romania
2 Oct 10
I told him these things. but he told me he loves me, he feels that we are meant, and that he'll do whatever he can to make me forget about him. he also had a relationship from wich he ended up hurt, and he told me that he would like to build a new relationship,that he feels that I'm a good person, and that I am what he has been looking for. now I don;t know I'm really confused, I love the other guy and I woulnd;t like to hurt my bf. at the same time I conscient of the fact that we couldn't get back together, and I would like to have a normal relationship with someone that cares for me
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
well you were honest with your bf^^ and still he wants to be with you^^ so lets see how things go^^ a way for things to work with you and your new bf is to accept that your ex doesnt want you back. while you still hope that you and him can be together again will be impossible to be happy with your bf. your bf is already forgetting his past bcs he said he loves you but you still want your ex back. you have to accept that your ex wont come back. if he wanted you back he would say something right? :) and he didnt. so is bcs maybe he wants have different life. anyway why you say you and your ex cant be together again? what happened?
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
I rather have a man with than, living it free without any commitment. I am not kind of person who easily change their bf/gf. It feels so good when the relationship has an assurance and you love each other. And we can't live like that forever, so its better to have a strong relationship with your partner.
• Portugal
10 Sep 10
yes you are right we never know how long we be alive so better to spend our time with a good guy instead of be jumping from guy to guy^^ one true love means so much more than just make out or have s e x with some guy^^ about me i need love in my life i mean i need feel that im cared and loved or im not completely happy^^ i can live without a bf but im not completely happy^^ thanks for your answer^^