loved and lost..

United States
September 12, 2010 6:04am CST
I decided that i want to be loved, and i was loved and hurt at the same time.. i decided im going to give up, and i did give up, but is still get hurt..
3 responses
@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
don't feel bad remember you're not the only one who had loved and lost. Loving is the most wonderful thing one could do in this life for without love where would this whole world would be? Give love another change and you'll find someday that love is a wonderful feeling and surely someone would come along to make your life beautiful and wonderful!
• United States
13 Sep 10
i do hope that one day some one will make me feel that love is a wonderful feeling and not just a mistake that i have done..
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Oh that is so sad to hear. Maybe you are just hurt at the moment that is why you sound so bitter. I also felt the same thing before. But you know only time can heal the wound of a lost love. When the hurt is so much try to pamper your self and look in the mirror think how beautiful person you are. Don't get tired of loving because that is natural that when we love we get hurt. Because if we don't love the person then we are not affected.
@jonnifc (1021)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Whenever we love, we run the risk of getting hurt. It's because we let our guard down and let ourselves be vulnerable to being happy and loved and getting hurt at the same time. That's the way it is. It's just a matter of whether the love is worth the pain. Giving up on a relationship will always be painful if you really loved the person. It's because you chosen to invest your emotions on them and now you have to let it go and accept the fact that you didn't gain anything from your investment. You lost, instead. Losing is always painful. But, you know, I believe in the saying "it's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all." At least you were courageous enough to take the risk. It might have ended in failure, but you learned from the experience and you are a better person because of the failure. Remember, everything has its own ending. So, even the pain you feel now, will end.....at its own time. Take care always!