i never had a best friend?

@sadie213 (160)
United States
September 13, 2010 4:13am CST
i never had a best friend since i came here because i'm afraid to make best friends sometimes they bad if you knoe them and then they lie to you, they using u for no reason and etc... i don't know why people like that if your good they're bad!!!!!
7 responses
@Metatronik (5911)
• Pasay, Philippines
13 Sep 10
It actually depends on the person that you have chosen to be with. Sometimes they are becoming best friends successfully because of their similarities though we can't really avoid that there are misunderstandings. Sometimes we can learn from it to accept more the person. There are really other people who loves to ruin their friend for their own benefits.
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@sadie213 (160)
• United States
13 Sep 10
thank you so much!!!!
@deve_annrn (1857)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Hi there.., does this mean that you never had a best friend because you were scared that they will just betray you and hurt you? I had one best friend from child hood.., and she never did anything bad to me.., I guess it depends on the person you chooses.., You should pick out the right friends.., =)
@sadie213 (160)
• United States
18 Sep 10
yes thats right im afraid that somebody they betray me or hurt me,, because u know each other since childhood!! since i came here in california i never had a best friends because i don't know people around here!!!!
@tkonlinevn (5784)
• Vietnam
14 Sep 10
It's difficult when we must move to a new place. But you should believe more another people. If you can't show your friendship, you'll not make friend with any person.
@sadie213 (160)
• United States
15 Sep 10
i know that!!! but its hard to find one because they plastic!!!
@greenline (14864)
• Canada
14 Sep 10
I have many friends, of my high school time, college time, and people I met at work here in my country and foreign countries too. Many of them I have known over the years and have been honest and sincere to one another. That is the value of true friendship, to be honest, sincere, and faithful to one another. And, that has to be mutual.
@akn1961 (1035)
• India
14 Sep 10
in present days of wealth ,it is very difficult to find good friend ,friendship nowadays are based on mutual interst ,if interest is not their then friendship may not be their,thanks for sharing.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
Well, not really. Not all people are bad. I believe you will find at least one best friend someday. The most important thing is we have to prepare our heart for anything, and accept other people just like what they are. The best way to do good things is you have to "release" your feelings. You will do good things so God will see and give you values, not because of your friends. That way you will be able to accept if your friends do bad things to you. Because you are doing good things not for them, but for God.
@sadie213 (160)
• United States
13 Sep 10
thank you for your advice!!!!
• United States
13 Sep 10
Just be yourself, if they are bad, just brush them off. If they are good, continue that relationship and see where it will lead. It will be either as a friend, good friend, best friend, or even someone you will consider as close as a sibling.
13 Sep 10
Me neither. I have never had a best friend, not because of a bad experience, but because I rate all my friends the same. I know each one of my friends is different and has different qualities, but I certainly do not prefer one over any of the others.